I will admit I do struggle with a bad lie...and I know that it is a lie that says the worlds music is better than our. I do struggle with fighting to not listen to secular music like the XM 80s and XM 90s channel.
I don't struggle with not listening to secular music -- I just do sometimes and it doesn't negatively affect me. Same thing with watching Family Guy or R Rated movies. I see myself as someone who puts up a force field, ya know, a shield so I can laugh at the jokes, enjoy real good acting or film making, and enjoy real good music. What goes against my Christian faith I can let all of that roll right off of me. I also personally don't want to live in a bubble, not exposed to what's out there in the world. Knowing about things that are completely non-Christian allows me the greater potential to connect with someone which could lead to me sharing my faith with them.
As far as secular music being better than (or not better than) Christian music, I think that's a toss up. The world of Christian music is rather small, unfortunately. For some bands/artists, there are just no Christian counterparts. Miles Davis, for instance. Who is the Christian Miles Davis with that amazing talent or body of work??? Nobody. Or Bruce Springsteen. Or sooooo many more, I could go on and on and on. I was raised on rock and roll and also fell in love with jazz. After becoming a Christian, that's something that's hard for me to throw away/leave in the past. I love music, listen to it daily, and if I listened to Christian music only, I'd get rather bored with it. I do listen to about 99% Christian music but still I get the urge to listen to something else every now and then. I would say, though, that in general, Christian music *is* better because of the message in the lyrics. Hands down. But if you strip away the lyrical message and compare Christian music to secular music, secular is way better partly because there's more of it and because of who, in the past 50 years, has recorded it i.e. a
lot of amazing musicians. But while I still enjoy secular music, I do know that if I listened to it a majority of the time, it would drive quite a wedge between myself and Christ and that's not good. Christian music actually helps me grow in my relationship with Christ but a little secular stuff now and then doesn't hurt me any.
I find that listening to stations like XM32 The Message or KLOVE for example just makes me feel better inside. It feel happy and joyful, not burdoned or frustrated.
I listen to WAY-FM, I've got it on now actually. I've built up a pretty good Christian music collection thanks to hearing so many artists on this station. It's the only radio station I've been tuned to for a long, long, long time. They're a network of stations like KLove but not as big. They have a morning show and an afternoon show that are pretty good to listen to, and a Top 20 show on the weekend. Music doesn't range too much, it's pretty much all modern day CCM -- Sanctus Real, Casting Crowns, Switchfoot, Francesca Battistelli, Tobymac, Chris Tomlin, Skillet, Superchick, FM Static, Tenth Avenue North, Todd Agnew, Jeremy Camp, Newsboys, etc, etc, etc. Good stuff, I think . . . keeps my soul young and, most importantly, feeling worshipful all the time.
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