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Hi Folks,
The whole "gay marriage" controversy brings up a question: what restrictions, if any should be placed on entering a marriage contract?
I think it can generally be agreed that whatever involves minors should be illegal. Most would agree that someone who is, say, under the age of 18, is too young to enter into the married state. (There may be some disagreement about the exact age.) Also, I hope we can agree that coercion is unacceptable, that people must be willing to enter into the married state and not be forced or deceived.
But beyond that, there is much disagreement. The current controversy is mainly about homosexuals marrying in a monogamous, non-incestuous way. However, there are other forms of marriage that currently are illegal. Should they be, and why?
Take, for example, polygamy. If it is consensual and not involving minors, should it be illegal to have as many wives or husbands as you and they want? If not, why not?
Or--more controversial--what about incest? Should the State bar marriage because of it? Again, excluding minors and unwilling partners--why should it be illegal? Is it because of eugenic concerns? If so, does that mean homosexual incestuous relationships (with no possibility of natrual offspring of the two parties) should be allowed? And should we make laws based upon eugenic concerns at all? Should we also, then, bar certain individuals from having children who have genetic disorders that have a high probability of being passed to their offspring? Why single out just one type of relationship that possibly (but by no means certainly) will result in birth defects, espcially when other relationships with higher possibilites of birth defects are allowed?
I know former Senator Santorum was widely criticized when he brought up these issues. However, I don't think they can be swept under the rug. I find it hypocritical to say "heterosexual and homosexual, monagamous, non-incestous relationships should be legal, but everything else should not"--and either not giving a reason, or acting offended and morally outraged that polygamy and/or incest is brought up.
Daniel
The whole "gay marriage" controversy brings up a question: what restrictions, if any should be placed on entering a marriage contract?
I think it can generally be agreed that whatever involves minors should be illegal. Most would agree that someone who is, say, under the age of 18, is too young to enter into the married state. (There may be some disagreement about the exact age.) Also, I hope we can agree that coercion is unacceptable, that people must be willing to enter into the married state and not be forced or deceived.
But beyond that, there is much disagreement. The current controversy is mainly about homosexuals marrying in a monogamous, non-incestuous way. However, there are other forms of marriage that currently are illegal. Should they be, and why?
Take, for example, polygamy. If it is consensual and not involving minors, should it be illegal to have as many wives or husbands as you and they want? If not, why not?
Or--more controversial--what about incest? Should the State bar marriage because of it? Again, excluding minors and unwilling partners--why should it be illegal? Is it because of eugenic concerns? If so, does that mean homosexual incestuous relationships (with no possibility of natrual offspring of the two parties) should be allowed? And should we make laws based upon eugenic concerns at all? Should we also, then, bar certain individuals from having children who have genetic disorders that have a high probability of being passed to their offspring? Why single out just one type of relationship that possibly (but by no means certainly) will result in birth defects, espcially when other relationships with higher possibilites of birth defects are allowed?
I know former Senator Santorum was widely criticized when he brought up these issues. However, I don't think they can be swept under the rug. I find it hypocritical to say "heterosexual and homosexual, monagamous, non-incestous relationships should be legal, but everything else should not"--and either not giving a reason, or acting offended and morally outraged that polygamy and/or incest is brought up.
Daniel