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Broken relationships in a broken world full of broken people. To borrow a line from my brother, with whom I was talking about this last night, "Our relationships are only as perfect as we are--in other words, not at all." It will hurt, yes. But trust in God to fulfill His promises that He will work all things for good for those who love Him, His children. Trust in the character of God, and do not despair, because you know God is faithful.
 
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All I can say in a situation like this, is that putting your faith in God is the best thing you can do. I wouldn't worry about why your boyfriend said this, or whether you are worrying too much. The best thing you can do is pray about it. If God wants you in this relationship, he will find a way to make it work, if he doesn't, then he won't. He will fulfill his plans in your life the way he wants them to be.
 
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ChildofGod1586 said:
Thanks guys for all of the advice. I know I was vague, so you guys did the best you could. Its just that this is my first relationship and I really do not want to get hurt. I decided to just relax and let it go, because I am sure I am making a bigger deal of it then it really is.
Thanks:)

let me just say that you must trust in God in your relaionship. I know that you want this to work but if it does nto work than it would be for the best in the long run. If this is the man that God has for you then nothing can make it not work. you might get hurt but in the end you are only stronger. my so left me a few months ago and there was a lot of hurt i loved her and she did not love me, i was trying to hard. we did not talk for about a month then we started talking again and we solved some problems and prayed about it and got back together and we are now very happy. just trust in God and everything will be fine.
 
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