Thank you, Tom. This does make it easier to respond.
In the post you responded to though I don't mean that your question is a nonsense question as such, but that you are approaching it in a way that is unlikely to coincide with any understanding of the topic.
I think, actually, that you did strongly imply that my questions made no sense. I'm glad you're not saying that now. I have a feeling that you mean I am unlikely to see the truth of prayer because of my skeptical attitude. But in fact, that's quite incorrect. I have an intellectually honest attitude; if God is real and prayer represents some kind of communication with Him, I want to know the truth.
Something like someone who doesn't believe in evolution and doesn't want to study the whole topic picking some details as a way of demonstrating why the whole idea must be false.
You're right, creationists don't want to know the truth. They think they already do know the truth, and that any facts, no matter how wrong they show creationists to be,
must be lies.
As for you, you
know that God exists, don't you? So any argument I make against God
must wrong in some way. Right?
I, on the other hand, do
not know that God does not exist. Nor do I know that Vishnu, Thor, Belenos or Baal do not exist. I
think they don't, but if evidence emerges that they do, I'd happily re-evaluate my position.
So which of us is more like a creationist?
These details seem major if looked at from that perspective - questions about eyes and that kind of thing, details people seize on in the belief that they disprove evolution, without realising that the only thing revealed is that they don't understand the claims made about evolution.
Right. Well, since I'm not a dogmatic creationist, all you have to do is point out my errors, and then I'll be able to know the truth. Let's see you do so.
It starts with understanding what is meant by 'ask and you will recieve'. Like any other idea in the bible, that phrase is one part of a whole, a whole that needs to be understood so that you can understand what the individual parts mean.
What makes you think I haven't studied this?
The Bible is full of examples of characters praying for things, and God granting their prayers. The world is full of Christians praying for things and saying they received them. More than that, the logic is flawless:
if God exists,
if He loves you and
if He is watching over you all the time, why wouldn't you turn to Him in your darkest hour, and ask Him for help?
From my study I take the recieve part to refer to less tangible things like guidance, understanding, personal growth and learning in a spiritual sense, things like that.
Okay. Let me stop you
right there.
"From your study?"
With all due respect, who on earth are you? Why should I listen to your interpretation, which seems to amount to nothing more than your personal opinion? Let me remind you, there are almost two billion Christians on this planet, and they are all split and fragmented into dozens, if not hundreds of different denominations, many of whom bitterly disagree with each other, and many of whom would certainly bitterly disagree with you. We could start with the good Christians over at the Prayer Wall on this very forum, who seem to disagree with you on a very major point, and are busily entreating God to do things and give them things.
You can study the same things too, and see what conclusions you come to, so long as you are prepared to put the time in and take the text as it is, rather than trying to make it fit into some other mold.
First of all, this seems to be implying that I have
not studied the Bible and the Christian religion in any great depth before. Does that seem to you to be patronising or presumptuous in any way?
Second, "see what conclusions I come to?"
This is not an art appreciation society. This is not a Book Club. We are discussing whether the God of the Universe exists, and whether or not prayer actually does anything. In both of these cases, the answer is either yes or no. But it seems that to you, this is a case where personal opinions and feelings about a matter count for something. This does not impress me with the reliability of your conclusions. It's starting to look to me that you are a Christian more because you
like it, because it
feels good, rather than because you have any objective reasons for believing that God is true.
For my part, in my experience, I'm satisfied that prayers regarding those kind of things have, at times, been effective for me.
Forgive me for saying so, but a weaker endorsement would be hard to think of.
You are "satisfied," and "for your part" that prayers "regarding that kind of thing" have been "effective" for you?
Look at it like this: if God did
not exist, then what do you think would be the effect on a person of sitting quietly, focusing on their most virtuous thoughts, and putting their feelings into words as they dialogue with an imaginary and benevolent being? Would you agree that such an experience would be very likely to lead to calmer and happier states of mind, feelings of focus, confidence and kindness, and perhaps inspiration, accessing one's own inspiration, courage and wisdom?
If that's what prayer does for you, it does the same thing for me, without God.
TO UNDERSTAND ANYTHING IN THE BIBLE YOU NEED A DECENT GRASP OF THE WHOLE BOOK.
You seem to be implying that because I do not agree with you, I have not studied the Bible. I'm not sure this conclusion is justified on your part.
The only way to test that idea is to do it yourself - that really is the whole point, the whole thing about the bible is that people are supposed to be living it, individually and together. It is all about experience, mostly shared experience, application, the results of that which can be seen over time.
Look at it from my point of view. There are over three thousand gods and goddesses throughout history to choose from. Which one is real? I do not have the time to "try out" a religion. I would not have the time in a hundred lifetimes.
To grasp that you really have to get it into your head that it is not a biological, technical or other testable system in the terms you use - spending some years as an active member of a church that functions as a community
Why?
If God is real, then it doesn't matter how I think or feel about Him; all that matters is an objective fact.
On the other hand, if God's reality is a subjective thing - ie, not real at all - dependent on how the believer
feels about God, then I can imagine that being part of a supportive community reinforcing positive feelings about God might be a good way to convince oneself that He exists.
If you're thinking about prayer in terms of things like 'God, give me a flaming sword!' or 'heal my disease' I really have no idea if prayers of that sort are directly answered or not, you'd need to investigate some cases if you wanted a definitive answer to that.
Sorry, "you have no idea"? Then why do you think you are worth listening to?
SOME THINGS CAN BE TESTED EMPIRICALLY WITH USEFUL RESULTS. SOME THINGS CAN’T. SOME THINGS CAN ONLY BE UNDERSTOOD BY A CONTEXTUAL EXPERIENCE.
This is exactly what I am attempting to determine through this thread. If God does actually grant prayers - something that millions of Christians believe, the Bible supports through countless stories of people praying for things to happen and their happening, and common sense - then the effects of this phenomenon should be perceptible.
On the other hand, if you get nothing more from talking to God than you would from talking to an imaginary friend, prayer is testable in another way - and indeed, is being tested all the time. Around the world, billions of people are praying to gods and goddesses that you believe do not exist - but they are reporting the same results as you are. How strange!
I know from experience it's a difficult thing for some people to grasp, I'll always remember someone saying to me, when I suggested that if he wanted to understand Christianity he would need to see it in action, to which he said 'so, you're saying that if I want to know if it's true I have to see it?' (or something similar) - well, to me that obvious answer was 'yes, clearly' but he seemed to think this was a ridiculous idea, and that if it couldn't be 'proven' using some easy to explain formula then it must be untrue. To me that seemed strange, maybe our brains are just wired differently - ?
I think you might be misremembering. I wonder if what your friend said was "So if I want to see if Christianity is true, I have to first believe that it is?"
This would be a thoroughly illogical action, but pretty similar to what you encouraged me to do above, so I think that might have been it.
If you respond, would you mind using paragraphs? Thanks!