Once again, everything God does is according to His foreknowledge
Foreknowledge of what? The Bible never says that God foreknew our faith and then chose us on that basis. rather, it says that the reason we come to faith is because we are predestined for it:
Act 13:48 And when the Gentiles heard this, they began rejoicing and glorifying the word of the Lord, and as many as were appointed to eternal life believed.
So not only does the Bible not say that God's choice of us was based on our faith, it instead tells us what in fact his choice was
based on:
Eph 1:4-6
(4) even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love
(5) he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ,
according to the purpose of his will,
(6)
to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved.
Eph 1:11 In him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined
according to the purpose of him who works all things according to the counsel of his will,
God's choice of us, which results in us coming to faith in Christ, is based on His own purpose, will, and grace, it is not based on our faith.
That would make faith into a work whereby it merits God's choice of us and merits our salvation because we were smart enough to "get ourselves saved" when unbelievers weren't
In other words that would make the believer himself the difference between believers and unbelievers, not God's grace. But the Bible says it is God's grace that makes us to differ.
God knew who would come to His Son
Of course he knows, because He himself is directly responsible for the fact that anynoe at all comes to His son! He doesn't sit back and passively discover who of their own will, with no input from God, comes to the Son:
"All that the Father gives me
will come to me.." John 6:37
We come to Jesus
because the Father gave us to Jesus. God tasked Jesus with the mission of saving His own chosen people to present a church to himself as pure, for his own glory, and Jesus accomplished that task, without fail.
The Triune God has a 100% success rate in salvation.
The reason anyone puts personal trust in Christ is because of God's gracious act in drawing us to the Son, not because of our supposed free will.
I also ask the question, what glory do you think your bringing to God by declaring that He only loves certain individuals?
I wonder if you truly understand the history of the OT in which God loved israel alone in a special way that differed from the other nations of the earth, whom he did not demonstrate his love to!!!
You only have I known among all the families of the earth Amos 3:2
If you told an OT hebrew that God loved them equally as he loved the other pagan nations, they would laugh in your face. Though God loves all people, he has a special love for his own people, this love is described as the special love a husband has for his wife in Eph 5:25
To say that God loves the saints in heaven as much as/no different than God's enemies in hell is ridiculous, and not Biblical.
I will never understand why anyone would try to say that God creates certain people for no other reason than to send them to hell forever.
All humans deserve hell, so for God to save any at all is pure grace. This type of argument only exists to draw on emotions and misses the elephant in the room known as "sinful criminals who deserve hell"
I know that He knows who will and who won't, but to try and say that the God of love would pre-plan someone's eternal destruction before they are even born, and give them no chance whatsoever for salvation is one of the biggest heresies I've ever heard.
Then your problem is with the Bible my friend for we hear all the time that God has blinded eyes and hardened hearts:
Joh 12:39
Therefore they could not believe. For again Isaiah said,
Joh 12:40
"He has blinded their eyes and hardened their heart, lest they see with their eyes, and understand with their heart, and turn, and I would heal them."
Further, your argument assumes that creatures deserve a chance at salvation, therefore you argue that it is injustice to withhold from them what they deserve. This is not biblical, as nobody deserves salvation. You cannot be owed what is gracious, or else the definition of "grace" is destroyed. Grace by definition means "not owed, but given freely". It's almost like these basic concepts go flying out the window when someone decides to bolster an attack against God's predestinating grace.
I want you to remember that when your praying for your loved ones. Why are you even praying for them? If God wants them, He will force Himself on them anyway.
What you don't understand is that your own argument here backfires against you my friend. If salvation is ultimately up to mans' will, and not God's, why are you praying to God for your lost friends to be saved? God can't/won't do anything about it, right? So why are you praying for them?
On the contrary, each Christian knows deep down that only God can convert that person and change their heart, which is precisely why we pray to God when we feel helpless (which we are). Only God can bring someone to the knowledge of the truth, that's why we pray to God to save our lost friends. If God had nothing to do with it, why would we pray to him as if He did?
So you see your argument isn't well thought out
Think on this for a while; if God condemns people to hell for not believing, but it is He Himself who causes them to not believe, than He is punishing them for something that He caused to happen. That would be like me punishing my daughter because I told her not to spill the paint, but then I knocked it out of her hand just so I could punish her.
First of all, God doesn't condemn people to hell solely for their lack of belief, he condemns them to hell for their
sins. As always, the doctrine of sin seems to be conveniently left out in these anti-predestination analogies. This results in a watered down, shallow analogy that misses the real picture and doesn't represent the Biblical understanding at all.
Further, God never forced anyone to sin, much like your "father" in your analogy who forced the bucket of point out of the hand. So right off the bat this analogy falls short. Here's a better, Biblical analogy:
You are the king of a small kingdom, and you go away on a trip. While you're gone, 10 men murder and rape your wife and daughter.
Upon your return you hold a trial, and you sentence 9 of the men to death because it's what their crimes deserve. However, you decide to have mercy on 1 of the men, because it's within your right and power to do so. You pardon the 1 man. No injustice was done to the other 9 men because they had no claims upon your mercy to begin with.
He gives everyone a chance for salvation, once again you cannot argue with Acts 17:26-30 or 1st Timothy 2:3-6
Yet again, this leaves man's sinful nature and condition and enslavement to sin out of the picture. Yes, God commands all men to come to Christ. But no man will naturally do that because they are rebels of God and are spiritually dead, and unable to understand spiritual things. No man can come to christ without the Father' enabling them (John 6). It takes God's direct intervention and grace for anyone at all to come to Christ.
God doesn't just sit back and chill and wait and see if sinners will suddenly embrace the God they hate so much and forsake the sin they love so much. In my Bible, God pursues people, he chooses people, he changes hearts, he converts, he elects, he predestines, he makes sure that billions of people are saved.
In your view, it seems God doesn't' do any such thing. He doesn't make sure a single person is ever saved. This is likened to taking a blind man to an art show and saying "pick your favorite picture". You can't expect a blind man to see without first giving him sight. Yet your argument is that God simply offers salvation to sinners with stony hearts - but doesn't actually change those stony hearts and take off the blindfold so that they respond positively to the gospel.