Do girls/women like bf/husband who
a) is boring?
b) doesn't talk much?
c) does not possess too much leadership skills?
a) is boring?
b) doesn't talk much?
c) does not possess too much leadership skills?
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What do girls don't like?
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kerosam said:
Not really.
Okay, finally I think of a suitable word: leadership. Ok, I shall edit my first post.
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Mr.Cheese said:
Maybe I can phrase my question like:
What do girls not like about their bf and husband?
However, the questions I posed can also be answered?
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Amy47
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I'd rather not pick out the faults my bofgriend has I mean we all have faults but why not remind ourselves of the things that make our significant other so special.
My bf isn't one of those guys that is too manly to cuddle with me, I love it, he treats me with respect and won't agree with me on everything, he challenges some of my opinions and that's what makes our relationship so original for us.
*stares at the picture of bf on desk* hmmm
My bf isn't one of those guys that is too manly to cuddle with me, I love it, he treats me with respect and won't agree with me on everything, he challenges some of my opinions and that's what makes our relationship so original for us.
*stares at the picture of bf on desk* hmmm
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findinghope06
Child of the Risen Lord
again it depends on the woman, but typical if you are walking with Christ, and truly have deep feelings for one another, any time together wont be boring...even if their isnt much talking. and answering the leadership skills, it would be nice to have some leadership qualitites but its not a HUGE deal if he doesnt.
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Cordy
“In case I don't see ya…”
I dont think you can never find out what women want because we are all different. You have to just figure it out woman by woman, and hopefully find one that matches your same values and vision so you two are on the same page.
For me personally, about the things you first listed:
a) My husband is not boring. He is not always a one man show, but I do enjoy his company, whether we are doing the exciting or mundane.
b) My husband does enjoy talking, but he is not one of those talkers who insists on lording a conversation. He is a conversationalist, and loves talking for hours with me and other friends.
c) Feminist? he most definitely is. Though being a feminist has absolutely nothing to do with whether he has leadership abilities. Leadership abilities dont concern me. I am more concerned with his personal confidence, and ability to serve God and love others.
Things I didnt like in men when I was dating:
a) Guys who are very concerned with social status and easily succumb to social pressure
b) When they think they have women figured out
c) Whey they think they have all the answers
d) When they have strong structured gendered ideologies
e) If they didnt enjoy learning or growing as people and followers of Christ
For me personally, about the things you first listed:
a) My husband is not boring. He is not always a one man show, but I do enjoy his company, whether we are doing the exciting or mundane.
b) My husband does enjoy talking, but he is not one of those talkers who insists on lording a conversation. He is a conversationalist, and loves talking for hours with me and other friends.
c) Feminist? he most definitely is. Though being a feminist has absolutely nothing to do with whether he has leadership abilities. Leadership abilities dont concern me. I am more concerned with his personal confidence, and ability to serve God and love others.
Things I didnt like in men when I was dating:
a) Guys who are very concerned with social status and easily succumb to social pressure
b) When they think they have women figured out
c) Whey they think they have all the answers
d) When they have strong structured gendered ideologies
e) If they didnt enjoy learning or growing as people and followers of Christ
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LOL... are you calling yourself boring? You're silly. You just need a little self confidence. No one is boring to *everyone* but everyone is boring to someone. Does that make sense? Anyway, I wouldn't worry about what girls will like, just grow as a person and be yourself and someone will like you. 
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Blue Impulse said:I think if people stop trying to figure out what ALL women want it would be a lot easier, because there is no generic set of things that every woman wants
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true true true
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