what did i do wrong?!

[memphisXwasted]

i guess i should be over by now....but i'm so in the dark....it only last a week....thats too short for a relationship...she chased after me..and i was like awww....she allways wanted to sit with me at church....and all this petty stuff....okay you have got the tone that she came on to me...and she basically is the reason for the relationship....and i fell for her...and we started dating and about a week later....it was like "i need space, just give me time, and i'll work it out, i still love you" then i'm talking to her and she is like "GET OVER IT!! WE ARE NEVER GONNA DATE AGAIN, YOU WERE SMOTHERING ME, GET OVER IT, NO MORE US, WHEN YOU WAKE UP IN THE MORNING, I DONT NEED YOU!!" now thats a little differen't it really sounds like i treated her bad, and i broke up with her and i'm the one that came on to her....NO! she came on to me, i was wonderful as i could be to her, she broke with me....and btw she is the one that called me every five seconds....not me...i dont know what i did wrong, everone from church thought we great together cause we were soo happy together, but i think she did me wrong, and i think everbody from church relizes that...cause they were asking me if i was okay last night, okay i had to vent.....sorry

 

[KLLM82]

about the gal's behavior. According to what you said, it doesn't appear as if you did anything wrong...perhaps certain things should've been made clear before dating? did you talk to her afterwards or you just accepted the fact that she said "it's over"?

~Katia~

 

[Mr.Cheese]

Man, some things you can't try to understand.
Just say, "Whatever makes you happy."
Then walk away.

 

[memphisXwasted]

yes we talked last night....i made this after talking to her...she was really bitter about it. and said how she dont wanna be my friend....that really hurt....she ought to let me go when i tried to get away at first...it kinda scared me at at first so i tried to avoid her....and then i was kinda mean to her...not giving her any notice...then she ran after me...in tears before i was gonna leave the church...and i fell in...i saw that she "actually cared" and wanted something...so i spent time with her....and now....she is leaving me for dead....saying how she doesn't wanna even be my friend

 

[DaveKerwin]

your first mistake was letting a woman persue you.

your second mistake was telling a woman you loved her after dating only one week.

your third mistake was dating a wierdo.

 

[MusicMelOU]

It sounds to me that God intends for you to be with somebody else. I know it may seem hurtful right now, but keep praying. When the right one comes along you'll look back and be so thankful.

 

[mina]

she sounds sort of irrational and not ready for a mature relationship

 

[memphisXwasted]

she is just not ready for a mature relationship at all....

 

[E-beth]

Some people just want to be wanted. Then when they have you, they don't want you anymore. It is immature and cruel, but they come in all ages, both sexes, and in all walks of life.

You don't want to be in a relationship where you don't know what is going on. Look for a girl who will treat you right.

 

[KLLM82]

your first mistake was letting a woman persue you.

your second mistake was telling a woman you loved her after dating only one week.

your third mistake was dating a wierdo.

lol, good one

~Katia~