Dear bobbarry. You keep telling us that we need the Holy Spirit, and how very important it is. We thank you for it, and we all, me included, wish that you would tell us what we are doing wrong: HOW WILL WE GET THE HOLY SPIRIT TO COME AND STAY WITH US? We are doing what Jesus told the Lawyer in Matthew 22: 35-40: " Love God with all our hearts, with all our souls, and with all our minds. ALSO: Love our neighbour as we love ourselves." What is missing??? or what are we doing wrong?
Jesus told us to " Ask and ye shall receive," then we ask God for Love and Joy, then thank God and share all Love and Joy with all around us. We keep asking God for Love and Joy, we thank God for Love and Joy, then we share all Love and Joy with our neighbour. ( Matthew 7: 7-10

Are we asking for the wrong things? should we ask for the Holy Spirit rather? tell us please, dear robbarry.
It is well known that we truly need the Holy Spirit to help and guide us, but what shall we do? Have we only to Ask and Receive? I ask this with love.
Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ.