Were we ever friends?

[Kaai]

My Bestfriend and I have been friends for 4 years, up until recently the future of our friendship is in question. My friend has taken me on the journey from sitting in her dental interview, to help orchestrating dental essay and application, to soliciting advice and giving encouraging words like any friend would. Well she got accepted into dental school and she didn’t tell me plus received an Associate degree from a previous institute she had attended. I’m disappointed and hurt more than anything if her intentions were not to share the ending success with me then I should have never been as involved/invited along for the journey. Any opinions, what would you do?

Yes I’m aware that friends don’t have to share EVERYTHING! However it defeats the purpose of bringing me along if the ending was not to share the news of success. It’s as if I served my purpose in her life (soliciting advice, giving encouraging words, even helping with graduate essays) for that season and once she made it to the level of success she wanted, she was done with me.

 

[Lulav]

Hello and welcome to CF!

I'm going to move your thread over to our Christian Advice forum and hope you get some good constructive advice from our Christian members here!

 

[Kaai]

Thank you.

 

[Tolworth John]

Any opinions, what would you do?

I am sorry for your hurt.

As to what can you do, it depends whether you are still in contack.
If she ignores your text messages, then she hasmoved on from you.
If she is still in contact ask her why you weren't told, that you feel betrayed etc.

Do pray for her and seek to put your hurt behind you, give it to God.