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iambren

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My gut hurt when I read about his unfaithfulness. Some people are so selfish it takes my breath away. Heal,heal,heal with time you can love again. Sorry you had to go through this but be thankful you are young and you didn't marry/have children with him.

If this behavior has been over a long time I have doubts he is a true believer. There are no guarrantees in this sinful world. Jesus is a faithful friend who gives you His constant,abiding love. Bless you, sister.
 
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Monaleezza

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Thanks everyone for your support. You've been really helpful and it's been good to have someone to tell. It's funny that as a Christian you still don't want to slander someone and tell all his friends and family what they've done, even if it is true and it did hurt.
At least I can be open and honest with you all.
Feels good to say it and get it off my chest.
I've been tricked by the man I loved and it's a blessing that I'm not free. I have to see it that way because it's the truth.
 
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