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Nienna - I am definitely NOT skinny, which is why I may go with an empire waist lol.

Beauty - I LOVE the bright colors you used!

When I was trying on dresses I found that empire just made me look fatter than I was, but you may be different.
 
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When I was trying on dresses I found that empire just made me look fatter than I was, but you may be different.

Maybe it depends on the "fat shape" lol. I really need to just start trying things on and see what looks good and bad.
 
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I really need to just start trying things on and see what looks good and bad.

Absolutely. I had an idea of what I thought would look good on me and sheath dresses seemed almost too shapeless, but the sheath dresses looked the best on me and my wedding dress was a sheath dress. I guess I have enough natural shape that I didn't need much from a dress. :p
 
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More random pics from our day...

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This picture cracks me up. My aunt giving my mom a high five. :p

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This picture also cracks me up.

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FTR, the little girl (one of my students) got caught it. And my friend who was trying so hard to catch it in the first picture just got engaged to the guy holding up the little boy in the second picture above :)

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The DJ had us do a dance to see who had been married the longest, and we were surprised/encouraged to discover that it took him a really long time to get everyone but one couple off the floor. The couple that won had been married 60 years. My parents had been married 35 years and my husband's parents had been married 29 years.

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Kirk came at me to the sound of JAWS music...

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OK, appointment to try on dresses set for Saturday at 11:00! I'm so nervous lol. I don't even wear skirts, let alone dresses, and I have NO idea what I'm doing! Should I wear special undergarments or anything? lol
 
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OK, appointment to try on dresses set for Saturday at 11:00! I'm so nervous lol. I don't even wear skirts, let alone dresses, and I have NO idea what I'm doing! Should I wear special undergarments or anything? lol

I don't think you "need" anything special, but if you have a body shaper, I'd wear it. They're comfy but they smooth out any bumps you have. Like..I have muffin top (AHAHA) so I wore one to make sure my muffin top didn't stick out more than the rest of my fat.

Wear a nice bra/undergarments. There will be a lady to help you try things on and you don't want to be embarrassed. HAHAH.

Also, try on their suggestions. Sometimes we have preconceived notions about what will look good, but it's their JOB to know what will look good on different body types. TAKE YOUR MOM. You'll need and want her opinion.
 
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Maybe it depends on the "fat shape" lol. I really need to just start trying things on and see what looks good and bad.

Yes I would say it depends a lot on what shape of fat you have. Actually mine is bloat; I can literally shift around 6-10 inches any given day O_O and it is mostly in the front. That's why empire did not work on me; it made me look pregnant as it settled rather nicely over my bump, lol. I have thin arms, legs, and a nice thin back and backside, so people CONSTANTLY think I'm pregnant.
 
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I don't think you "need" anything special, but if you have a body shaper, I'd wear it. They're comfy but they smooth out any bumps you have. Like..I have muffin top (AHAHA) so I wore one to make sure my muffin top didn't stick out more than the rest of my fat.

Wear a nice bra/undergarments. There will be a lady to help you try things on and you don't want to be embarrassed. HAHAH.

Also, try on their suggestions. Sometimes we have preconceived notions about what will look good, but it's their JOB to know what will look good on different body types. TAKE YOUR MOM. You'll need and want her opinion.

Yes, Mom is going with me, and I will gladly take their suggestions, since I have no clue what'll look good on me. I've heard some consultants dislike brides who just say "I don't know what I want"... well, tough. I really don't know lol.

Yes I would say it depends a lot on what shape of fat you have. Actually mine is bloat; I can literally shift around 6-10 inches any given day O_O and it is mostly in the front. That's why empire did not work on me; it made me look pregnant as it settled rather nicely over my bump, lol. I have thin arms, legs, and a nice thin back and backside, so people CONSTANTLY think I'm pregnant.

Awww, I'm sorry. That must be difficult to put up with :(
 
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OK, appointment to try on dresses set for Saturday at 11:00! I'm so nervous lol. I don't even wear skirts, let alone dresses, and I have NO idea what I'm doing! Should I wear special undergarments or anything? lol

It will be fun! :sohappy: Don't be nervous!
 
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Thank you Tink, Celtic Heart, and Melissa(I like your flowers btw)

Nienna, your dress is pretty.

Celtic, I never tried on any dresses as I knew I wanted to make my own though it was hard to resist while shopping at bridal stores with my bridesmaids for their dresses and I hadnt even started making my dress yet. lol.
I'm sure that is super fun! I would recommend wearing white or neutral colored underwear and bra and strapless if you have so that you don't have to worry about how the top part will look.
 
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Celtic Heart, they'll have slips and stuff there at the store for you to put on under any dresses that would need one, my only advice is to wear white or nude colored underwear. I'm sure people know that, but guess who wore blue and green striped panties when she tried on dresses... :sorry:

Here are some pictures from my wedding on May 14, 2011:
 

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It will be fun! :sohappy: Don't be nervous!

I hope it'll be fun! Trying to squash the nerves :) I wish I had some girl friends who could go with me, but Mom will have to do lol.

Celtic, I never tried on any dresses as I knew I wanted to make my own though it was hard to resist while shopping at bridal stores with my bridesmaids for their dresses and I hadnt even started making my dress yet. lol.
I'm sure that is super fun! I would recommend wearing white or neutral colored underwear and bra and strapless if you have so that you don't have to worry about how the top part will look.

Noted! Thanks :)

Celtic Heart, they'll have slips and stuff there at the store for you to put on under any dresses that would need one, my only advice is to wear white or nude colored underwear. I'm sure people know that, but guess who wore blue and green striped panties when she tried on dresses... :sorry:

Here are some pictures from my wedding on May 14, 2011:

The picture of you in front of the stained glass window is SO BEAUTIFUL. The colors make it seem just magical.
 
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Don went to the opera house this morning and met with the secretary there, and took some pictures for me :)



The smaller room (The Gallery):




The larger room (Dickinson Room):


Tables and chairs provided!



Still trying to schedule a time to see Belmont Hall.
 
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Amber and I were talking about weddings the other day...and decided that if/when I get married..she will be wearing Belle's dress for it. Which works because I have dreamed of a yellow wedding anyway :p

And we also talked about a bunch of Disney songs I looove and would be awesome to have in my wedding (and Amber will song at least one :preach:)

So, I reckon my wedding is just gonna end up being a Disney themed one....though, I've never really thought about it

I do need to look up princess wedding dresses



....I mean, doubt it will actually happen that way, going full out, but I can dream.
 
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