wedding night

[Alenci]

What do you / did you look forward to most on your wedding night?

If you feel comfortable, please state your opinion in a post to the thread as well. I am curious about the gender breakdown.

 

[fuzzymel]

The connection more than the pleasure.

The pleasure comes with the connection.

 

[mina]

hmmm, I think I'm looking forward to a combination of things. Basically just being with my husband with no boundaries, just being close and knowing it's ok, good, and right.

 

[f U z ! o N]

im looking forward to finally being with that woman that God made for me, the connection, the emotions, and of course physical pleasure!!!
hey i am a guy LOL!

 

[Niels]

Both

 

[DragnGT]

The physical enhances your emotional connection. You recognize that contact as love, commitment and trust, in more than just words.

To be bluntly honest, on my wedding night I hope I don't hear "I'm not doing that."

 

[AceHero]

When I first saw this post, I was thinking, this has to be the most ridiculous poll question ever. I'm like, duh, sex! But when you think of it more, there is a definite emotional connection before and especially after sex, especially in regards to the female. Though it'll be fun for both in the long run.

I also like that idea of "no boundaries." Whether you get really emotional or really physical, it doesn't matter, because what happens happens. The concept of "no regrets" sounds incredible... not having any second thoughts in the morning must be awesome.

 

[superdave]

Although I look forward to the night that Me and My Wife have sex, however--I know that the first night of sex, is going to be the first in a long life of sex. So, why get worked up about that night? I look forward to the fact of being with someone forever. I havent met the person in my life, to spend forever--with...and I will just be overwhelmingly overjoyed when that woman is joined flesh to flesh, bone to bone, blood and blood, all in all--to me.

What a great night, and a great life we'll share together.

 

[The Princess Bride]

I'm looking forward to the whole package!

The physical, emotional, etc...etc.....I am eagerly waiting on it all.

 

[bella_song]

Definitely both, but just getting to be so close with someone with no shame will be amazing!

 

[Pyrogenesis]

Mostly the emotional side of things. In fact, totally the emotional side of things. Sex is nothing without the commitment and trust.

 

[Beauty4Ashes]

I voted physical That was my first thought and I didn't take much time to focus on the answers. See, the emotional connection and intimacy is overall more important in the long run. But the way I see it, the major thing that the wedding night implies is being able to have sex with that person you already love and are already emotionally connected to but not physically. So yea, I look forward to that. That doesnt mean that's my reason for marriage. Like I said the emotional and spiritual respect is more important in the long run but I have to admit, I'd be looking forward to physical intimacy on my wedding night more than anything else.

. . . . . .Maybe I'm the only one really being honest??

. . . .Well, I really don't think I'm shallow. I just went with my first instinct.

B4A

 

[mina]

No, I'm looking forward to sex, but also other things. It's part of the good things that I'm looking forward to. I think it all goes together - the physical, the emotional, trust, connection, etc...- especially when you are marrying someone you love very much.

 

[A2597]

wedding night...I imagine we'll be so tired not alot happens..

honestly, I'm just looking forward to being able to fall asleep holding the woman I love. (And waking up with her as well...)
The intimate stuff...well, that will happen when it happens. I'm not in a hurry for that.

 

[Forever trying]

Even though I'm looking forward to the physical part, I'm particularly looking forward for the feeling of connection. Knowing that it would be the first night with the woman who'll I'll spend the remainder of my days with, and who'll be my equal partner in everything we do. I think if the emotional side of it is there, that will greatly contribute to how good and easy our sex life is.

 

[Jedi]

I wanted to say "both," but since that's not really an option and the question is what I'm looking forward to "most," I put the emotional connection. Knowing that here I am with this girl, no boundaries between us, able to lose ourselves in each other in a cloud of love and adoration, holding her close in the most intimate way possible, fully trusting and open with each other, being as close as possible to each other - actually inside her.

Dang. That's freaking awesome. Now, um, just to find that girl - or better yet, have God bring us together. Oh, how impatient I grow in learning this lesson of patience.

Note: of course, I do not mean to downplay the physical aspect at all. Of all people, I know very well the power of pleasure the body is capable of feeling and so desperately desire for that special young lady to experience that powerful rush of raw, unbridled, physical pleasure. How true it is that the physical pleasure fiercely forges the bond between a man and his wife in a passionate heat that reigns supreme.

 

[NotHardcore]

Both, but mainly the emotional connection. I want to feel his body over me and to feel him inside me...to be able to trust him so fully and give him the thing that I can't give to anyone else.

 

[Shazamataz]

I wanted to say "both," but since that's not really an option and the question is what I'm looking forward to "most," I put the emotional connection. Knowing that here I am with this girl, no boundaries between us, able to lose ourselves in each other in a cloud of love and adoration, holding her close in the most intimate way possible, fully trusting and open with each other, being as close as possible to each other - actually inside her.
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Both, but mainly the emotional connection. I want to feel his body over me and to feel him inside me...to be able to trust him so fully and give him the thing that I can't give to anyone else.

AGREED!!!!

They both go together, I think. I'm seriously looking forward to the physical aspect!!!!! But the emotional connection is extrememly important too!!!

 

[peanutbutter12]

I clicked Other.

We were just happy to have all the planning and stuff done and over with. Everything else is just icing on the cake, so to say.

CJ

 

[Sketcher]

To be honest, I've believed that the connection is part of the pleasure, and that is one reason why I want to save myself. It's God's complete sex package, vs. the world's cheap shortcut.