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Without delving too deeply into the details, this morning an old friend stopped by to visit.. and we almost had sex. I'd sworn off sex until marraige after I got pregnant last year.. after breaking that vow for the first time. It's true once you let it go that far that it's hard not to fall back into the same habbit. Like it doesn't mean as much. (To those of you who still hold this vow, hold on to it with both hands kicking and screaming. It's not worth it to give up.)

So please, please pray for me.. and my friend. My body has had a mind of its own after almost a year without human contact and right now I don't trust myself to be alone with someone of the opposite sex. I told him if he comes over again, my mother has to be around. I don't want to put myself in that position again. I stopped it this time but ugh. Excuse me while I go smash my face into the wall.
 

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Heh, you are doing very well. I tried really hard with the abstenance thing... like I tried 20 times or so, so I'm proud of you. Its a good goal and important. I'm curious though, about this guy you almost had sex with... uh so is there a reason you guys don't date? It is kinda extra trashy to go hump a guy you wouldn't even consider dating, not that I haven't done anything like that before, I know its trashy 'cause I have experience!

Anyhow yeah just wanted to say, you are doing a really good job and keep it up. I think there are lots of reasons that abstenance is good and people should try their darndest to practice it. Its waaaay too late for me, but you can totally manage, I'm praying for an iron will for you and maybe good luck finding that special someone,

BEN
 
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Without delving too deeply into the details, this morning an old friend stopped by to visit.. and we almost had sex. I'd sworn off sex until marraige after I got pregnant last year.. after breaking that vow for the first time. It's true once you let it go that far that it's hard not to fall back into the same habbit. Like it doesn't mean as much. (To those of you who still hold this vow, hold on to it with both hands kicking and screaming. It's not worth it to give up.)

There are people like you here who strive tooth and nail to keep their body holy for the Lord. Don't give up and never give in!

Father we can do all things through Christ which strengthens us. We ask for your grace to do not our will but yours in Jesus name.
 
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Without delving too deeply into the details, this morning an old friend stopped by to visit.. and we almost had sex. I'd sworn off sex until marraige after I got pregnant last year.. after breaking that vow for the first time. It's true once you let it go that far that it's hard not to fall back into the same habbit. Like it doesn't mean as much. (To those of you who still hold this vow, hold on to it with both hands kicking and screaming. It's not worth it to give up.)

So please, please pray for me.. and my friend. My body has had a mind of its own after almost a year without human contact and right now I don't trust myself to be alone with someone of the opposite sex. I told him if he comes over again, my mother has to be around. I don't want to put myself in that position again. I stopped it this time but ugh. Excuse me while I go smash my face into the wall.
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As it is written in Matthew 19 and 20...
"Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them."
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