I don't know why I am here on such a private issue. The wounds are still fresh and seething, yet hubby and I are trying to fix the damage done by my betrayal at the same time, repair the underlying issues that have plagued our marriage for the past 13 years. We are high school sweethearts, and we share 2 children. I had a very long inappropriate relationship with another, and have broken it off and moved out of state. I hid the relationship for a long time and recently was exposed. It has created a lot of pain for my husband, and he and I are committed to finding and renewing our love through all of this.
I am looking for some advice on things that would edify him, and help mend his heart. We love each other more than you can imagine. I don't need advice on "fixing" the marriage, but ideas on what men in his situation would like to have, know, or see that would affirm and heal. We talk more now than ever, and he has revealed his emotional needs, and I am prepared to tackle them, (although not adequately equipped ) But actions aren't coming as quickly as he needs, and I am feeling helpless.
Thanks.
I am looking for some advice on things that would edify him, and help mend his heart. We love each other more than you can imagine. I don't need advice on "fixing" the marriage, but ideas on what men in his situation would like to have, know, or see that would affirm and heal. We talk more now than ever, and he has revealed his emotional needs, and I am prepared to tackle them, (although not adequately equipped ) But actions aren't coming as quickly as he needs, and I am feeling helpless.
Thanks.