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[Nathan55]

I havent felt this way in a long time. Theres this person who means a lot to me and I would really like to have a relationship with her. I bought her a box of chocolates for Valentines Day but I never told her how i felt. I have trouble finding the right time to do it, and when I do have a chance I blow it and never end up telling her. I get really anxious waiting just to see her and try to tell her how i feel but never do and its really wearing me down. My faith is a main issue hear. I pray and ask God for a chance but deep down i feel like it wont happen anyway, that i wont get that chance and I feel like as if im just digging a hole for myself. Please help me with any advice you may have.

Love nathan55

 

[goldenviolet]

nathan do you mean dating socially or seriously as dating for potiential spose?

your post is so sweet and so sad. i'm praying for you to find away to exspress yourself and to feel important as a person and a child of God.

 

[thejdubb02]

nathan do you mean dating socially or seriously as dating for potiential spose?

your post is so sweet and so sad. i'm praying for you to find away to exspress yourself and to feel important as a person and a child of God.

Good question... if you are thinking she might be the 'one' then you shouldnt be scared of anything.

The way I have always looked at it, is the worst she can say is no... and the best she can say is yes. You have a 50-50 shot and if the Lord has it in store it will happen... you will find the strength.

GO GET EM TIGER!

 

[Anti Existance]

My advice is this.

If you never shoot you always miss, you see its a win win situation for you. If you ask her out and she says no , you can move on with your life, and if she says yes you got a date.

 

[IndianaMom]

Nathan, I know you are know nervous on telling her how you feel but if you never tell her then how will she know?? Do you know how she feels about you? Maybe you two could go out for a casual dinner or lunch and then you could tell her.

 

[navygirl]

Just ask her for a moment when the two of you can talk at a friendship type of level. Then tell her your feelings and see where it goes from there.

 

[Nathan55]

Thanks for the responces guys, it means a lot to me, it really does. I did tell her how i felt and asked her out. She said no because of her schedual, but i dont know. I was happy to tell her how i felt but upset at the fact she said no. im not mad at her, i cant blame her at all shes still a cool person. I normally dont date, im not normally an emotional person, it takes a lot for me to activly tell someone how i feel, so in a way this could have been "the one". . Ultimatly i feel it is in the Lords hands, if He wills it to happen then cool, if not i gotta keep truckin anyway. Thanks for the love guys

love, nathan55

 

[silentpoet]

I am sorry it did not tunr out how you hoped. I know how hard it can be to open up and risk yourself. I pray that you are blessed through this in someway.

 

[Nathan55]

Thanks for your support, all of you. Bless you

 

[UnitynLove]

something like: Sha la la I need you, Sha la la I LOVEEE YOUUU. LOL! Let me stop, why don't you just go up to her and say how your doing, you know start off with a general conversation.