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Swart said:You should have this discussion with Dawn. She has researched it more than most and has come to the conclusion that JS never took a plural wife.
I don't have strong opinions either ways, but the evidence is quite compelling that he didn't:
- Emma maintained to her death that JS never had a plural wife
- JS III travelled to Utah and interviewed all the women that claimed to have married JS and found no evidence that any of them were.
- In an age of zero effective contraception, there are no children of JS to anyone other than Emma.
- JS maintained it was not only the first wife who gave consent, but the one who chose the plural wives. Emma never gave consent to Joseph.
Swart said:JS maintained it was not only the first wife who gave consent, but the one who chose the plural wives. Emma never gave consent to Joseph.
And let mine handmaid, Emma Smith, receive all those that have been given unto my servant Joseph
And again, verily I say, let mine handmaid forgive my servant Joseph his trespasses; and then shall she be forgiven her trespasses, wherein she has trespassed against me; and I, the Lord thy God, will bless her, and multiply her, and make her heart to rejoice.
newyorksaint said:However, this isn't what was intended with Joseph Smith. He's probably rolling in his grave over the blatant abuse of others behind the mask of righteousness. The Lord, and Joseph Smith, never intended for polygamy to be the mask behind which abuse hides.
These are example of people taking the teaching of someone, and distorting it. Kind of like some Muslims taking the teaching of Jihad, and distorting it to mean that it is in reference to a physical war.
intrepid said:My dear friend: My wife read a book called Mormon Enigma, which I have not read. She was a Mormon when she read it (with a Temple Recommend for 39 consecutive years). She discovered that Joseph Smith married teenaged girls, married and procreated with women who were married to other men (conveniently sent on missions by Mr. Smith), and that he promised exaltation to entire families if he was allowed to marry a daughter. These things he did because he claimed they were divinely inspired - he was directed to do so by God. The book was written by two LDS women. I recommend it to you.
Swart said:You should have this discussion with Dawn. She has researched it more than most and has come to the conclusion that JS never took a plural wife.
I don't have strong opinions either ways, but the evidence is quite compelling that he didn't:
- Emma maintained to her death that JS never had a plural wife
- JS III travelled to Utah and interviewed all the women that claimed to have married JS and found no evidence that any of them were.
- In an age of zero effective contraception, there are no children of JS to anyone other than Emma.
- JS maintained it was not only the first wife who gave consent, but the one who chose the plural wives. Emma never gave consent to Joseph.
Swart said:The problem with this irrationality is that you've got the cart before the horse. The inquisition was sanctioned and funded by the RCC. The FLDS are an apostate group that have nothing to do with the CoJCoLDS. They practice a form of PM that is vastly removed from the 19C practice. What the FLDS practice now would have be held in contempt by 19C LDS when it was typical for the husband to be ten years older than the first wife. The prevailing attitude of the general population at the time was for the husband to have worked for lon enough to have his land and build a house before taking a wife. This typically happened by the time the man was in his mid twenties. In contrast, a woman was considered of marriagable age upon entering puberty; eighteen year olds were often labelled 'old maids'. In PM, the second wife (and subsequent) wives were typically older women or widows. Often it was a form of social security. In all cases, the first wife chose the other wives.
Contrast this with the actions of the FLDS, where men in their forties and fifties (and older) are being married to pre-pubescent girls against their will and then forcibly raping them on their wedding night.
Swart said:What the FLDS practice now would have be held in contempt by 19C LDS when it was typical for the husband to be ten years older than the first wife.
newyorksaint said:The "shortage of women" is a bad analogy. The best theory so far is an abundance of women, and giving the Church's standpoint on a strong family block, these widows and single women would need to be cared for.
A dissimilarity is the fact that the majority of these fundamentalist LDS goups that practive polygamy, the majority of the group practices it, while with Joseph Smith, and even with Brigham Young, only about 2% of the brethren practiced it, with the vast majority of that 2% (about 75%) having only 1 additional wife.
intrepid said:My dear friend: My wife read a book called Mormon Enigma, which I have not read. She was a Mormon when she read it (with a Temple Recommend for 39 consecutive years). She discovered that Joseph Smith married teenaged girls, married and procreated with women who were married to other men (conveniently sent on missions by Mr. Smith), and that he promised exaltation to entire families if he was allowed to marry a daughter. These things he did because he claimed they were divinely inspired - he was directed to do so by God. The book was written by two LDS women. I recommend it to you.
The vast majority of accounts actually state that all wives in a polygamous relationship were cared for. In fact, the laws of the Church did not allow such a relationship to occur unless the male could provide for his wives. They were not neglected, and had to be cared for.Guyver said:Actually these widows and single women where very often neglected in the polygamous marriages piticuliary in the case of Brigham Yoing. I believe in one instance when one of his wives went to him for some money and a decent place to live ( She was living in a one bedroom shack at the time) he said his cow was better then her. You need to read Todd Comptons book In Sacred Loneliness, but then again that would be "Anti-Mormon" material wouldn't it.
newyorksaint said:The vast majority of accounts actually state that all wives in a polygamous relationship were cared for. In fact, the laws of the Church did not allow such a relationship to occur unless the male could provide for his wives. They were not neglected, and had to be cared for.
newyorksaint said:Have you any other sources than this Compton book? I will look for it, but my local library is limited, and my funding is, at best, lacking, at present.
I understand. Are there any other sources to support your claim?baker said:You can get the Compton book from lds church owned 'Deseret Book".
See here:
http://deseretbook.com/store/product?sku=3210062
newyorksaint said:I understand. Are there any other sources to support your claim?
I didn't say that it didn't. However, this is one book. There are more accounts, in serval different sources, that say contrary to what is claimed is said by these women.drstevej said:the testimony of shamed women doesn't count?
"Better put some ice on that"
- William Clinton to Juanita Broderick
newyorksaint said:According to the reviews of the book, it's worth the read. It seems to be split down the center, those that think it's valid research, and those that don't. However, the majority seem to think that Compton's opinions may not be valid, regardless if his research is. In other words, the accounts may be accurate, but Compton's conclusions may not be. I'll have to see if I can find it.
Reviews from Desert Book: http://deseretbook.com/store/reviews?sku=3210062
Reviews from Amazon.com: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/customer-reviews/156085085X/ref=cm_cr_dp_pt/104-8406069-0603920?%5Fencoding=UTF8&n=283155&s=books
Institute for Religious Research, Mormons in Transition Review: http://www.irr.org/MIT/sacredlon.html
I just looked, and it said "new and used from $26.97". I unfortunately cannot afford that right now, so I'm going to see if my local library has a copy, or if they can send for a copy.drstevej said:I bought a used copy on Amazon cheap.
newyorksaint said:Have you any other sources than this Compton book? I will look for it, but my local library is limited, and my funding is, at best, lacking, at present.