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S T R... Oh! Strider! That was it. I only met him briefly but he was a cool guy. (Who said anything about banned members?!)

And I have axydavid's card marked in case he asks me out. It's an absolute no! I'm a MehGuy kind of man.

(He's the 'chick' I'm trying to impress.) ;)


It WAS NOT STRIDER. Sorry for the intensity, that was actually a cool guy who left, and I don't want to have his reputation ruined by a false rumor. The username of the guy was Stravinsk.

Wow, this is subtlety if I have ever seen it. If you are going to implicate someone as someone else, just come out and say it, and present your evidence. What does having someone's "card marked" mean? Sounds terribly threatening. I had a look over the list of members that came up on a search of STR and there are plenty. How, uh, "brave" of you to implicate all of them.

The poster's name is Stravinsk, it happened in the summer of 2013. The poster made a YouTube video that mentioned private information about several female members on CF that were not shared with him directly or indirectly, and then sent it to them. This was the final straw that lead to an exodus of CF Singles in late June/early July of 2013. Most of the posts directly referencing this have been deleted off of the public forum, the only one that I could find is this one: http://www.christianforums.com/threads/whats-on-your-mind-54.7759819/page-16#post-63650539. Also, feel free to scroll back and take a look at the difference in the number of replies in your average thread from May 2013 to August 2013.
 
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It WAS NOT STRIDER. Sorry for the intensity, that was actually a cool guy who left, and I don't want to have his reputation ruined by a false rumor. The username of the guy was Stravinsk.



The poster's name is Stravinsk, it happened in the summer of 2013. The poster made a YouTube video that mentioned private information about several female members on CF that were not shared with him directly or indirectly, and then sent it to them. This was the final straw that lead to an exodus of CF Singles in late June/early July of 2013. Most of the posts directly referencing this have been deleted off of the public forum, the only one that I could find is this one: http://www.christianforums.com/threads/whats-on-your-mind-54.7759819/page-16#post-63650539. Also, feel free to scroll back and take a look at the difference in the number of replies in your average thread from May 2013 to August 2013.

I see. This is interesting. I have recently read a stickied thread in this section where this Stravinsk person denies making any such video. This is a serious public accusation. Is there any proof besides someone's word?

The post you quoted seems to be out of any kind of specific context you refer to and therefore I'm led to believe it is reaching insofar as that context is concerned.

In any case, I think my post stands as it is, for both your post and the original one I quoted above with relation to making an unsubstantiated accusation.
 
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I see. This is interesting. I have recently read a stickied thread in this section where this Stravinsk person denies making any such video. This is a serious public accusation. Is there any proof besides someone's word?

I've seen the video, and was apart of the mass exodus.
 
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And seeing a video you can immediately determine it's author or creator? Was the channel it was hosted on a known one of Stravinsk's?

Yes. The private video was delivered through PM via Stravinsk. The only other viable theory was that some lurker made the video, hacked into Stravinsk's account, and sent the video. The women had no connection other than CF.
 
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Yes. The private video was delivered through PM via Stravinsk. The only other viable theory was that some lurker made the video, hacked into Stravinsk's account, and sent the video. The women had no connection other than CF.

PM through pms on Christian Forums? Again, very interesting. Did you yourself get a copy directly from Stravinsk? May I ask who exactly has made these specific accusations? It seems to me it would be an easy thing to prove by forwarding them on to staff. Was Stravinsk's account hacked? Did someone not using his IP and browser data gain access to it? These things can easily be determined by IT staff on forums such as this.
 
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PM through pms on Christian Forums? Again, very interesting. Did you yourself get a copy directly from Stravinsk?

It was either from the woman directly or her best friend, it was two years ago.

May I ask who exactly has made these specific accusations?

Originally? The women involved.

It seems to me it would be an easy thing to prove by forwarding them on to staff. Was Stravinsk's account hacked? Did someone not using his IP and browser data gain access to it? These things can easily be determined by IT staff on forums such as this.

CF did investigate and he was subsequently banned for this and other reasons. The banned was overturned via his appeal in November 2014.
 
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I love a good debate over old users as much as the next fellow, but this isn't really an appropriate line to go down.

Though I suppose videos mentioning things you didn't realise anyone outside of your group knew is a little, tiny bit creepy.
 
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What is on your mind?
Oh there was someone who made a creepy profile here for fun and just watched everyone's profile, but he never said anything so I decided to make a sock account and stalk him back until I thought I was being childish and then I removed it.
 
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Oh there was someone who made a creepy profile here for fun and just watched everyone's profile, but he never said anything so I decided to make a sock account and stalk him back until I thought I was being childish and then I removed it.
That sounds like the NSA! Did the individual said anything at all?
 
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That sounds like the NSA! Did the individual said anything at all?
Nope. BookWornWorm and CFLurker did just that. Lurk. CFLurker mainly lurked in the forums, while BookWornWorm visited profiles.
 
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That sounds like the NSA! Did the individual said anything at all?
It sounded more like someone who was just making a joke. He had something in his profile that he liked to watch profiles, but he didn't post. So every time you saw last 10 who watched and his name also and then you click on it and could read his profile.
Lol he changed the text later and said that he had nothing to do with my account. Oh yes it said: silent guy, scary guy or something, so I said I like silent guys. Hahahahaha he removed it later.
 
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It sounded more like someone who was just making a joke. He had something in his profile that he liked to watch profiles, but he didn't post. So every time you saw last 10 who watched and his name also and then you click on it and could read his profile.
Lol he changed the text later and said that he had nothing to do with my account. Oh yes it said: silent guy, scary guy or something, so I said I like silent guys. Hahahahaha he removed it later.
It seems a lot of people here were scare of this individual.
 
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It seems a lot of people here were scare of this individual.
Really? I dunno, one woman thought it was funny because everyone watched each other's profile. I couldn't stand it that you couldn't leave a message so I decided to stalk back with this:
Not-Stalking-LOLCat.gif
 
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