Very sad

[Remny]

Hey there folks.  I've had an exciteing week.  Some of you may remember I'm on here from time to time praying about my relationship.  I had a good start to the week, we went to six flags, and then to canada.  She got the date that she will be leaving for flight school  Augest 25... not very far off.  Things were a little agitated when we got back, and I just really can't figure her out and she doesn't talk enough sometimes.  She didn't feel well and kept flakeing on plans.  Also the inpending doom of the move is now more real because we have a date that she is leaving.

I am soo sad right now.  We just broke up you see.  She was cold, and I loved her.  We did so many things together.  I did more with her than I've done with anyone.  It just seems so right.  I can't imagine meeting anyone as fun and active.  All this bad timeing.  It has been so hard for me to find anyone halfway normal to date, and even so I can't get it right.  I really need distraction, I don't want to be crying about this all day.

I think there are plenty of different kinds of people in the world.  I realy need good friends and companionship to be happy, it has been hard to find friends or companions.  I have a couple very close friends, still... I should quit whineing and take my own advice and be more outgoing.

This hurts real bad, I need God's mercy.  I hate feeling this way...

thanks you for your prayers...

Benjamin Jeanotte

 

[simplicity]

Don't worry, Ben. The rough feelings will soften over time. It might never disappear. I want you to know, nearly all of us have had to face these terrible feelings of loss, regret and confusion - and a bunch of other conflicting and competing emotions - that often accompany relationships of love.

Speaking for myself, I've had to deal with it way too often.

That having been said, you will find God's love can fill every empty space and wipe away every tear. If you need Him to mend your heart and inspire you, He can do it easily. Your friend isn't with you anymore. So maybe you should do your best to let her go.

I'm guessing you're a young person. You have a long road ahead. I'll pray for The Lord to guide you.

 

[Gerry]

I am very sorry for your pain. I could write a lot of words. But there are times when words are just words. Best I can do is to lift your name to Jesus. I have done that. May God give you comfort and peace.

 

[altya]

I agree with Gerry, its only God who can carries you through. I am praying for you.

 

[Mr.Cheese]

Dude, this is the worst feeling in the world I believe.
But you're gonna be ok. It takes a little time, but the good news is you are going to get through this and you'll be ok.
You are a cool person. be patient. God will give you someone who deserves you.

 

[wvmtnkid]

I'll be praying for you too Benjamin! One of the best things I can tell you to do is to go get a life! Not saying that you don't already have one, but now is the time you have really got to resist that temptation to just sit around being depressed and feeling sorry for yourself! (I speak from experience on this one!) Go do something you really enjoy doing, or maybe this is the time to try something different that you have always wanted to do but just didn't have the courage. Just please don't sit around thinking about a lost love. Who knows who may be waiting to meet someone just like you. But you gotta put yourself out there! I know all to well that it will be hard, but ask God for courage and guidance. I'll pray for you as well! Hang in there!

 

[ZiSunka]

Take heart in this Ben: God is in control. He may bring her back, or he may have someone even better for you in the future.

Take all the good times and keep them in the "scrapbook of your heart." They will be happy memories of her and the fun you had together.

But don't be depressed, God still has plans for your life that will be more amazing than anything you can think up for yourself!

 

[Gerry]

Remny! I am glad you have posted a picture avatar. You are a very good looking young man. I had to smile. Yesterday, when I was young, I wore my sideburns in EXACTLY the same way.

I wish I could take your pain for you. I know what you feel. But I think when you are young, it is much like the grain of sand on an oyster. In the end, the irritant produces a pearl.

Stay focused on Jesus and He will produce a Gem.

 

[Living for Him]

Remny, YOU will get through this. Coming from someone who has been there all too well, you WILL get through this. It hurts like you know what, and you will never have the answer as to why...until months, years later, when you have finally moved on, you look back, and you can see clearly,why Gods hand moved the way it did.And you will be awed.And you will be thankful.And you WILL BE whole again.I promise.

Issaiah 55:9 is my favorite scripture...

"As the heavens are higher then the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways."

 

There is a reason, just go with it, and keep your eyes on Jesus.he will carry you through. I wished that I had had that knowledge when I was going through it.

 

Praying for you!

Lori

 

[Remny]

Thanks you guys are sooo great. I really appreciate the things you have said. Namely Gerry and Lambslove helped put me in a better mood with what you have to say. I appreciate, however EVERYONE who prayed for me and gave me their words and sympathies.

I should never neglect my prayers, because they work so well. Every single time I need prayer from you guys, you come through and things work out so well and with God's Spead. We have gotten back together, and she was able to talk about a lot of things. She is very stressed her whole life style has been changing and things will continue to change. I suppose it is makeing her a little moody. Of course I'm not perfect or anything, and we talked and I am really trying to better myself too here. It's just great that we are able to be together again.

It's God's wisdom and your prayers that help me through this. It really helped to figure out the right things to say and do in this situation. I always try and turn to God for what the right actions are. I really appreciate this place so much, your prayers help improve my life.

Thanks again,

Benjamin Jeanotte

 

[Aussie_Tash]

That is great