Hi i am in constant prayer over this situation. My sister has a husband that has molested her oldest daughter for the past 4 years. She is now 17 and ran away due to this and finally told someone. She has a younger sister 13 at home that she is very worried about. He was arrested and charged with simple misdeamenors i am confused about this
but they said she was an adult in fl. But it first started happening when she was 13. Anyways my sister from the beigining has been very nice to him she says she knows it was wrong. But believes that he is finally finding G-d i however disagree and want him kept away from the other younger child. He manipulated my sister and niece telling her, her mom would kill herself if she found out and that noone would believe her. And believe me it was a shock!! I Have known him 10 years he adopted both of the girls years ago. And seemed to be a good father. But now it seems it was lies. My sister believes that G-d gave her him and that restoration is possible. I must first say that i believe in a MIGHTY G_D and he can and will forgive him. But i am not sure that it is right for her to allow her other child to put in danger. She is blinded by i guess love he has went to church one time in the last 6 weeks since it happend. That is a small baby step. But he is trying to convince her it was her fault even at 13... I feel if he was truly remorseful and asking for G-d's forgiveness he would be a man and plead guilty (not no-lo). But she and i have already quit speaking because i told her that G-d wants us to protect our children and by doing this i cannot allow my lil girl around him. I do believe he can be forgiven but i also believe in consequences for our actions. I have pleaded with her in every way i can and still she says i do not understand. She is right i am in a unequally yoked marriage too. But G-d would give me the strength to walk a way from a man that would her my child...... I am at a loss to what to do now except pray pray pray!!!
but they said she was an adult in fl. But it first started happening when she was 13. Anyways my sister from the beigining has been very nice to him she says she knows it was wrong. But believes that he is finally finding G-d i however disagree and want him kept away from the other younger child. He manipulated my sister and niece telling her, her mom would kill herself if she found out and that noone would believe her. And believe me it was a shock!! I Have known him 10 years he adopted both of the girls years ago. And seemed to be a good father. But now it seems it was lies. My sister believes that G-d gave her him and that restoration is possible. I must first say that i believe in a MIGHTY G_D and he can and will forgive him. But i am not sure that it is right for her to allow her other child to put in danger. She is blinded by i guess love he has went to church one time in the last 6 weeks since it happend. That is a small baby step. But he is trying to convince her it was her fault even at 13... I feel if he was truly remorseful and asking for G-d's forgiveness he would be a man and plead guilty (not no-lo). But she and i have already quit speaking because i told her that G-d wants us to protect our children and by doing this i cannot allow my lil girl around him. I do believe he can be forgiven but i also believe in consequences for our actions. I have pleaded with her in every way i can and still she says i do not understand. She is right i am in a unequally yoked marriage too. But G-d would give me the strength to walk a way from a man that would her my child...... I am at a loss to what to do now except pray pray pray!!!
