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[angelkiss]

I have decided to do away with what was originally here and I'm just going to do the one thing that I always live by.........I'll do my best, and let God to the rest.
's and es!!

 

[COVINABP]

Hey angelkiss, well, since you changed what your starter was, guess I needed to change my following post LOL!

William

 

[angelkiss]

Thank you very much William. I'll check it all out.
's and es!!

 

[wonderwaleye]

Dear Angelkiss


We do need to keep in mind that our spouse has to deal with us having bipolar and that is not always a fun or easy job!!!


For that reason we need to give them the benefit of doubt. Doesn't mean we allow others to not treat us properly.


ONE DAY AT A TIME SWEET JESUS, PLEASE BE WITH ME AND HELP ME TO REMEMBER:





X Even though you can't see him, GOD is there!!! O
( click on the x and drag to the O ) ( then see who is with you ) steven

 

[angelkiss]

Dear Angelkiss


We do need to keep in mind that our spouse has to deal with us having bipolar and that is not always a fun or easy job!!!


For that reason we need to give them the benefit of doubt. Doesn't mean we allow others to not treat us properly.


ONE DAY AT A TIME SWEET JESUS, PLEASE BE WITH ME AND HELP ME TO REMEMBER:





X Even though you can't see him, GOD is there!!! O
( click on the x and drag to the O ) ( then see who is with you ) steven

Yes wonderwaleye, I do agree that it's not easy for a spouse to live with someone that is bipolar.
#1 I explained this to him when we first started dating and he laughed it off and said that mental illness was "over-rated"
#2 Although he now recognizes that the illness is indeed real, he refuses to soak in any knowledge that may be helpful to him in any way.
#3 I have given him all warnings of what may happen in the future and what happens happens. I may have felt sorry for him having to deal with me if he were in fact here most of the time. He stays on the road more than he's home and refuses to find anything closer.....While he is home, he may actually be here 1 day out of the week and then he's fishing, riding the ATV, and hanging with his son (that he works with) most of the time. So it's not like he actually has to deal with me that much. He can't even spot an episode for he's never here enough to see what happens. Then, he gets out on the road and has a bad day, then calls me up, takes it out on me and tries to make it sound as if I started it......No, that's messed up and among other reasons, I'm tired of it and I'm not one to tolerate it. I can live a very happy christian life single and I don't mind if it's for the rest of my life, for I can have the rest of my life to live my all for God with no interruptions.

 

[UnitynLove]

It reminds me of that song: I'm trading my sorrow, I'm trading my shame, I'm laying it down for the joy of the Lord! Good for you!

 

[COVINABP]

Well, I agree with both of you, wonderwaleye, & I very much agree with you too angelkiss, you deserve your husbands' time, just seeing what I have seen of you here, you are a very wonderful person, and you have such great things to say about everybody, I truely wish you the best in life, I do think that you can salvage your marraige, give that 5 love languages a try, 200 pages of large print, took me, a non reader 5 days, you'd have it done in a few hours!
Though it is true God doesn't like divorce, it is also true we shouldn't have to live like we are a despensable employee, who cooks, cleans etc. It is a marraige, BOTH parties need to give 100%, none of this 50-50 stuff.

May god Bless you greatly in this time of need, Give God the Battle, and you shall have the victory!

William

 

[youthwalk]

It reminds me of that song: I'm trading my sorrow, I'm trading my shame, I'm laying it down for the joy of the Lord! Good for you!

Great song! And Amen!

I have decided to do away with what was originally here and I'm just going to do the one thing that I always live by.........I'll do my best, and let God to the rest.
's and es!!

Good outlook Angelkiss. I try to maintain this within myself. Keep the faith and keep hoping for we are assured that those who hope in the Lord are renewed like the eagles....

God Bless you!

 

[angelkiss]

Well, I agree with both of you, wonderwaleye, & I very much agree with you too angelkiss, you deserve your husbands' time, just seeing what I have seen of you here, you are a very wonderful person, and you have such great things to say about everybody, I truely wish you the best in life, I do think that you can salvage your marraige, give that 5 love languages a try, 200 pages of large print, took me, a non reader 5 days, you'd have it done in a few hours!
Though it is true God doesn't like divorce, it is also true we shouldn't have to live like we are a despensable employee, who cooks, cleans etc. It is a marraige, BOTH parties need to give 100%, none of this 50-50 stuff.

May god Bless you greatly in this time of need, Give God the Battle, and you shall have the victory!

William

Thank you COVINABP. I will do my best to get that book and give it a try

 

[angelkiss]

I truly thank you each and every one for your support. It really means a lot.
's and es!!
MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU ALWAYS!!

 

[walshclan]

I have decided to do away with what was originally here and I'm just going to do the one thing that I always live by.........I'll do my best, and let God to the rest.
's and es!!

Angelkiss:

Doing our best is all God asks of us. I'll be praying for you and your hubby.

Connie

 

[angelkiss]

Just to keep y'all informed, things are looking better between me and hubby. I don't know for how long, but I'm hoping he has finally realized what is important. We have been doing better and I know God has heard every prayer.
Thanks to all of you for your prayers and support!!
Love and many thanks!!
's and es!!

 

[walshclan]

So good to hear, Angel. I'll keep praying.

Connie