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Grandpa2390

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lol learn some humility, and don't say you were joking. All women being lesbians or bisexual is definitely not my world view, but it is very interesting if it is true. I can't say after one study if it is true or not, but you definitely did not crush me in any way, only in your mind.

I can only go by what I see. All I did was propose a scientific alternative explanation for the results, and you have gotten bent out of shape. If what I said doesn't bother you, then it seems pretty silly for you to be desperately arguing with me. Also making some personal attacks.
 
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I could care less if the study is true or not, but it should be surprising to no one that people find attractive naked people sexually arousing.

Good, now you are seeing it our way ;)
 
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Your worldview just doesn't seem capable of accepting even the possibility of it being true. Thats a shame.

So his findings dont mean anything? Because you don't want it to be true?

It seems his findings have triggered an emotional response inside of you, people only disagree with studies they find offensive. Whether there has been a peer review or not, a normal response would be okay maybe what he found is true, maybe its not true, lets see what else they find when they look into this further. But to just totally dismiss a study because its not peer reviewed is ridiculous.

lol. yes I will take these as being attacks.
btw, people not only disagree with studies they find offensive, they also disagree with studies that don't have any merit.
But since you don't, you should stay away from sites like the flat earth society. You will become very confused, very quickly.
 
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Good, now you are seeing it our way ;)

But I don't see why it would shock people, or be controversial if a woman who identifies as straight says she finds another woman sexually arousing to her. Yet women can't even say this, because they will be shamed, or misunderstood.
 
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lol. yes I will take these as being attacks.
btw, people not only disagree with studies they find offensive, they also disagree with studies that don't have any merit.
But since you don't, you should stay away from sites like the flat earth society. You will become very confused, very quickly.

I don't even know why you keep bringing up flat earth society, and I brought forth a study, and you said it has no merit which is a claim you can't back up. And if you took those things as attacks then you are a very sensitive person.
 
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But I don't see why it would shock people, or be controversial if a woman who identifies as straight says she finds another woman sexually arousing to her. Yet women can't even say this, because they will be shamed, or misunderstood.

a straight woman wouldn't say that. Sometimes our bodies act without our agreement. And our culture has done what it can to try and use this to confuse us. Just like child (and adult) molesters do to their victims.
 
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a straight woman wouldn't say that.

Some women may not say that but it doesn't mean they don't feel it. There's plenty of reasons why a straight woman wouldn't say it, but it has nothing to do with whether or not they actually feel that way about other women. But there are plenty of straight women who admit to being sexually aroused to other women, I don't see why this is an issue to you.
 
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Some women may not say that but it doesn't mean they don't feel it. There's plenty of reasons why a straight woman wouldn't say it, but it has nothing to do with whether or not they actually feel that way about other women. But there are plenty of straight women who admit to being sexually aroused to other women, I don't see why this is an issue to you.

Once again, it comes down to the interpretation. It is one thing to say that a straight woman can be mechanically aroused by another woman. that is true. Same thing for men.

I have even heard of a good many women complaining about be aroused while breast-feeding their baby.

But if you are going to take that information and use it to say that these women are not actually straight. or that the second group are a twisted perverts... that's where we start having issues. Now you are just trying to push an agenda. and I don't see the evidence for how these facts necessarily support your agenda.
and by "your" I mean the person who says these things.
 
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But if you are going to take that information and use it to say that these women are not actually straight.

I haven't done that but the scientist in that study has. Disagree with him not me. Being sexually aroused doesn't mean you want to pursue that arousal into a relationship or a sexual act. Most of these women who say they are sexually aroused by women also say they don't feel inclined to pursue a romantic relationship with women. None of this should be an issue and seems perfectly normal to me. It is an issue however when people themselves misinterpret these feelings for actual romantic attraction and think they are gay or someone is gay for having these feelings.
 
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Did anyone think that the biofeedback might not indicate sexual arousal? Maybe shame, or embarrassment, or even jealousy. I don't know, but I think my predominant emotion about seeing anyone naked would be utter embarrassment.

When I am embarrassed, my heart beats faster. My pupils may dilate.
 
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