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ImAllLikeOkWaitWat

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Sounds like a study by either a guy who has been rejected too many times, or by a woman with ulterior motives.

Or it could be true, I mean science never lies.
 
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Sounds like a study by either a guy who has been rejected too many times, or by a woman with ulterior motives.

if by ulterior motives you mean, trying to justify her own preference... that was my first thought.
 
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From what I know about other women.. it's probably true. Lol.

At least the secular ones.. who are probably more frank about their attractions.
 
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From what I know about other women.. it's probably true. Lol.

At least the secular ones.. who are probably more frank about their attractions.

Well looks like its tied 2 vs 2....whos gonna be the tiebreaker in this best of 5 series. Will a white knight show up and give galatea and grandpa the edge...we shall find out soon enough.
 
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if by ulterior motives you mean, trying to justify her own preference... that was my first thought.
That's what I thought too. People get crazy ideas. If a woman says another woman is beautiful, that doesn't mean she is a lesbian. It is sad when people can't admire beauty for what it is without it being turned into something sexual.
 
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From what I know about other women.. it's probably true. Lol.

At least the secular ones.. who are probably more frank about their attractions.
Do you think a Christian woman is being less than honest if she says she is not attracted to women?
 
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From what I know about other women.. it's probably true. Lol.

At least the secular ones.. who are probably more frank about their attractions.

or confused. Religious leaders aren't the only folks out their trying to bend your ear and convince you to live by their views.
 
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If a woman says another woman is beautiful, that doesn't mean she is a lesbian. It is sad when people can't admire beauty for what it is without it being turned into something sexual.

But this isn't even what the study is claiming makes someone a lesbian or bisexual.

"Meanwhile of the women who identified as straight, 74% were strongly sexually aroused by videos of both attractive men and attractive women.Dr Rieger said: "Even though the majority of women identify as straight, our research clearly demonstrates that when it comes to what turns them on, they are either bisexual or gay, but never straight."
 
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Do you think a Christian woman is being less than honest if she says she is not attracted to women?

Often yeah.

From my experience the more secular women are more open about that stuff than the Christian ones.
 
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That's what I thought too. People get crazy ideas. If a woman says another woman is beautiful, that doesn't mean she is a lesbian. It is sad when people can't admire beauty for what it is without it being turned into something sexual.

well they are saying "aroused". So I am thinking they are measuring heart-rate, blood-flow, pupil dilation, etc.

but just because you are "sexually aroused" doesn't mean you are attracted. I know this statement will leave some of you scratching your heads, but it is the truth. If you are asking whether our bodies involuntary respond to certain stimuli that leaves our brains confused if not horrified... it happens.

one only has to ask those who were raped or have battled a pornography addiction.
 
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well they are saying "aroused". So I am thinking they are measuring heart-rate, blood-flow, pupil dilation, etc.
I don't think any scientist who values their reputation would say the following unless they had good reason to.
Dr Rieger said: "Even though the majority of women identify as straight, our research clearly demonstrates that when it comes to what turns them on, they are either bisexual or gay, but never straight."

Those are strong words and no scientist would ever make that claim without sufficient reasoning.
 
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Hmm.. I think that particular study had flaws.. if it's the one I'm thinking off.. cause it also indicated women were attracted to apes too. Lol.
 
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I don't think any scientist who values their reputation would say the following unless they had good reason to.
Dr Rieger said: "Even though the majority of women identify as straight, our research clearly demonstrates that when it comes to what turns them on, they are either bisexual or gay, but never straight."

Those are strong words and no scientist would ever make that claim without sufficient reasoning.

I don't want to be mean... but what you are saying is a bit naive.
Scientists are humans, and all humans have beliefs, and agendas to push their beliefs. Conscious or subconscious.

Being a scientist is (and has always been) in the same realm as being a politician. There have been many frauds in scientific history, and their have been many mistakes.
I am not calling this person a fraud, I'm allowing this person to be simply mistaken.

But when you are a researching a political topic such as this one, there is an agenda.... there is always an agenda. One doesn't choose a specific area of science to research without wanting to prove something...
 
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I don't want to be mean... but what you are saying is a bit naive.
Scientists are humans, and all humans have beliefs, and agendas to push their beliefs. Conscious or subconscious.

Being a scientist is (and has always been) in the same realm as being a politician. There have been many frauds in scientific history, and their have been many mistakes.
I am not calling this person a fraud, I'm allowing this person to be simply mistaken.

But when you are a researching a political topic such as this one, there is an agenda.... there is always an agenda. One doesn't choose a specific area of science to research without wanting to prove something...

But you are saying hes wrong based off of your subjective experience, Hes saying you are wrong based off of numerous tests. Who do you think is more likely to be correct. We have your opinion vs an actual study.
 
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We can try to deny the evidence all we want, or follow it where it leads and accept the reality of it.

Nobody is stopping him/her from doing his research. If he wants to follow it and see where it leads... he can go right ahead. But I don't have to accept the reality of it until I see real evidence of a reality.

This "lesbian" state could be as much a product of biological processes or cultural manipulation rather than actual attraction.
 
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