URGENT: Please help

[Reborn_in_Christ]

I need prayers from you guys ASAP plz. A friend of mine is getting herself into a bad situation with a guy. She's always told me that she was just going to wait for God bring the right guy into her life and do things on His time, not her's. But she met this guy at a wedding like 4 days ago, and now she's gotten into long periods of kissing and the like. I don't know the extent of it, but after only 4 days you should not be doing that stuff yet. She's been in a cycle of going from guy to guy for a long time, getting hurt over and over again. And I've tried talking sense into her, telling her that this isn't a good thing to be doing right now and see what God thinks....but she said she didn't care. I care about her alot and don't want to see her dropped hard by some guy that is only looking for one thing. She's so sweet and caring, she deserves so much better. But she won't listen to me and has said that she doesn't ever want to talk to me again. She thinks that I'm just disregarding her POV, but it only seems like that becuase she won't see that I earnestly care about her well being. I've been in VERY similiar situations (losing my fiance and all), and she thinks that my experiences have no merit at all. Please, whom ever is reading this, please take a minute and pray that the Lord sit her down and explain to her that at the VERY least she needs to slow down and think. I can't bare the thought of her being stumped on . Please help.

 

[Angelface007]

Dear Reborn In Christ,

After reading your posting , it brings me back to atime when I was young and thinking back upon my mistakes. If I'd only listened to those who cared about me, the mistakes that I made, would surely not be upon my shoulders today! I pray that your friend will at least talk to God. And she will at least give God achance to help her make the right diccision for her life! As for you sweetie, I can see that you are hurting, cause you want whats best for your friend! I say to you, to be careful.... we women sometimes get offensive and when our friends metal to much into our business we push them away! I can tell that you adore her and really admire her! Just be careful how you approach the sitution, while talking to her about this. ok " We all have to learn from our mistakes, sometimes we open our eyes and see our mistake before it happens... in this cause I pray that your friend does."

Dear Heavenly Father, I ask you Lord to plz be with this young lady! I ask you Father to help her put you first and to not cross the boundry line of wrong- from right! Help her Father to keep herself pure.... by placing a guard upon her body and a shelter within her heart. Only you father have the power to keep her safe and pure!

Also Father I ask you to plz be with Reborn , bless him Father for being the friend that he is. Help Him Father to stay close to you and also guard His heart . Give Him the strength to be a truely good friend, one that is not a smuthering friend but one that is a loving friend. Give him the ability to be there for his friend, but have him father to be careful how he handles their friendship with his actions, and words! In Jesus name I ask of Thee amen`

 

[Cat59]

Pray that the Lord sit her down and explain to her that at the VERY least she needs to slow down and think.

for your friend and also for you, as you try to help her
Cat

 

[Live4God]

R.I.C., PRAYing Right Now! L4G!

 

[Anna N. Amos]

Hooking up with the wrong person can change your life and take it down a long bad journey. It sounds like your friend is lonely and only feels complete with a guy around.

Perhaps someone (a good minister, or teaching tape) can explain to her how to be complete in Christ. When we find ourselves whole in Christ we seem to make much better choices.

I pray right now that this woman find the love that passes all understanding, that she find herself full in you lord and as she stands for truth that you can bring her someone to spend her life with who is committed to Christ.

 

[creed107]