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upset right now

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am upset right now ... my sister is best friends with the person who raped me
she knows what he has done yet she is going about with him
it makes me feel so sick ...she has kids that he could hurt
but because i never reported the rape he has got a clean record
and when the social work ( my sisters kids are under social work ) his disclosure will come back clean
there is nothing i can do to stop my sister hanging around with him

me and my alters ( other personalizes) are really scared that he will come to my house and cos problems
but am also scared for my sisters kids as well and my sister but i dont think she believes me about the rape .

 

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how long ago did the rape happen? it might still be prosecutable if the statute of limitations has not expired in your area.

it must be very lonely, upsetting and frustrating to feel like your sister does not take your concerns seriously. it must feel like she has betrayed you or something.
 
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I'm sorry, that must be a horrible situation to be in.
If you can, you need to report the rape for the sake of the children.
I know it will probably be hard for you to do that... but if they are i danger, please try to talk to someone about it.
Praying for all of you :hug:
 
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