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ok well remember how i posted i about how my boyfriend was getting on my case about me finding a job, the yelling and how i was just not happy anymore..well i had been thinking about leaving him because i couldnt stand for it anymore....mostly because i know that i did not deserve that....
well last week he called and he asked me if i were happy in the relationship and i came clean and told him no...he asked me why and i told him that i just cant stand for the yelling anymore..i felt like he was becoming more of a parent and less of a boyfriend..that the way he was acting was pushing me away from him...i said that i have been looking for a job everyday and that he knows that, and that he knows im trying...and he said he knows that...i said to him that god always comes first in my life and that it makes me unhappy that he doesnt pray so much.....(but i didnt yell...)i said he needs to stop being controlling...he said that he likes to controll things and i said that he should not try to controll me because im his girlfriend and he knows im super sensitive..so i said if he continues with all the yelling, controlling behaviour i would leave him....he felt really really bad and he said sorry...its been almost three days since i told him how i feel and he hasnt yelled or anything, in fact, he is starting therapy to seek help for his temper...but i did tell him if his old ways come back, i will not put up with it...when he called again.. we talked and laughed..laughed like we havent in a really long time.......
im not one to stand up for myself...but God worked through me so that i could speak through my heart
praise the loving lord who watches out for us
well last week he called and he asked me if i were happy in the relationship and i came clean and told him no...he asked me why and i told him that i just cant stand for the yelling anymore..i felt like he was becoming more of a parent and less of a boyfriend..that the way he was acting was pushing me away from him...i said that i have been looking for a job everyday and that he knows that, and that he knows im trying...and he said he knows that...i said to him that god always comes first in my life and that it makes me unhappy that he doesnt pray so much.....(but i didnt yell...)i said he needs to stop being controlling...he said that he likes to controll things and i said that he should not try to controll me because im his girlfriend and he knows im super sensitive..so i said if he continues with all the yelling, controlling behaviour i would leave him....he felt really really bad and he said sorry...its been almost three days since i told him how i feel and he hasnt yelled or anything, in fact, he is starting therapy to seek help for his temper...but i did tell him if his old ways come back, i will not put up with it...when he called again.. we talked and laughed..laughed like we havent in a really long time.......
im not one to stand up for myself...but God worked through me so that i could speak through my heart
praise the loving lord who watches out for us
