I understand what you are saying about their vows privately before God but I still think they should officially get married. I agree with the comments about obeying the law of the land.
If they make their declaration between themselves and God then what if they choose not to be together any longer - would that be divorce then? Would they have broken a covenant relationship? If this is so then what about those many people who get together and break up engagements and the like - have they then not by that argument divorced? If they met someone else would it be adultery? I am not trying to argue issues such as divorce here but to make the point that how you define when someone is married has a knock on effect on many other issues.
Where are the witnesses to this 'marriage'? Who can confirm that they are married? I know God is a witness but even in old Testament times (except maybe Adam and Eve ) it appears to me that other people were involved in a marriage. For example, parenst paying for receiving the bride into the family.
If marriage is this easy then anyone can declare themselves married before God. What about those of us whom at 5 years old declared themselves married in the school playground - even before God?
If they make their declaration between themselves and God then what if they choose not to be together any longer - would that be divorce then? Would they have broken a covenant relationship? If this is so then what about those many people who get together and break up engagements and the like - have they then not by that argument divorced? If they met someone else would it be adultery? I am not trying to argue issues such as divorce here but to make the point that how you define when someone is married has a knock on effect on many other issues.
Where are the witnesses to this 'marriage'? Who can confirm that they are married? I know God is a witness but even in old Testament times (except maybe Adam and Eve ) it appears to me that other people were involved in a marriage. For example, parenst paying for receiving the bride into the family.
If marriage is this easy then anyone can declare themselves married before God. What about those of us whom at 5 years old declared themselves married in the school playground - even before God?
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