One of my pet peeves about Christian forums is when people talk about other people as "unsaved." How do we know if someone is saved or unsaved? Shall we make these judgements based on the words of Jesus? Well, which words shall we use? Are you saved if you believe in Christ and accept him as your savior, as scripture supports? Are you saved if you feed the hungry, clothe the naked, visit the sick, as scripture supports? Are you unsaved if you don't do one or both of these things? Are you unsaved if you are lukewarm, as scripture supports? No one is saved except through Jesus, but does this mean that you have to believe in him while you're still alive? What if you've never heard of him? Or could it just mean that everyone who goes to heaven does so because of the price Jesus paid for us all? Is it that one must eat his body and drink his blood or he will have no life within him? How can I be sure which of the people I know are saved and which ones are unsaved? Wait, now I'm remembering something that's making it clear..."Judge not." Only God knows the hearts of men, and only he knows the destination of our souls. It's pretty tough to say that people who do this or don't do that are going to hell without making the connection that Mr. X does this or doesn't do that so he's going to hell. All we should do is pray for people, which will never do anyone any harm, and be the best person we can be. Would you like it if people referred to you as unsaved? Just try to love everybody!