My mom tends to be unpredictable/unreliable. She tends to tell me one thing and then another. For instance, asking me for money for something then giving me the money back and maybe saying she wasn't serious. My dad has done the same to me before. Also unpredictable with family relationships, at times not wanting to talk to members of the family and badmouthing them terribly and then talking to them again. I have taken their financial requests seriously at times, wanting to honor them and at other times have ignored the financial requests because of this behavior, knowing they would return what I give them. The family relationships are harder to deal with given all this uncertainty. Is there anyone out there who has ever been in a similar situation with their parents? How have you dealt with it? This is taking a toll on me, that's why I keep posting here. It's hard to deal with.