cactusj said:
I need a little help on how to handle a situation. two members of our church--passed retirement age--are living together as man and wife. They have the same last name so most people aren't even aware they aren't married. They have been living together since 1997 and very much consider themselves married in the eyes of God. He now feels he has been called to preach. Another church member wrote him a letter about him not being married and attending the church--I don't have all the details at this time but any help would be greatly appreciated.
In Him
Fredia
Their actions will confuse would-be Christians. Just like baptism is the physical action that increases faith, so should marriage. There are two baptisms - physical and spiritual. There are two marriages - physical and spiritual. Does this couple also believe in same-sex marriages? Although I am not perfect and have sinned against God many times, knowingly, I have learned that my actions can make or break a would-be believer in Christ. This is because they see with their eyes, not with their heart. If your actions cause another to sin, you are out of God's will. It is our Christian duty to set an example, no matter how small or unimportant you think it may be. We should not be the object of people's whisperings. That takes away from glorifying God.
"Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account..." (Hebrews 13:17).
Romans 1:28-32: "And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them."
Hope this helps.
In Christ,
mrsjordanjr