I am open about universalism, I just don't know how you guys get past some verses. If you have an explanation for them I will hear you out. For example, all of the verses that say the wicked will perish, everlasting destruction, the second death, etc.? How do you explain those verses about perishing and the wicked getting destroyed?
Bear with me before I express things regarding your concerns !
I believe that you have heard this :
For in Scripture it says: “See, I lay a stone in Zion, a chosen and precious cornerstone, and the one who trusts in Him will never be put to shame.”
Now to you who believe, this stone is precious. But to those who do not believe, “The stone the builders rejected has become the capstone, ”
and, “A STONE THAT CAUSES MEN TO STUMBLE AND A ROCK THAT MAKES THEM FALL.” They stumble because they DISOBEY THE MESSAGE–which is ALSO WHAT THEY WERE DESTINED FOR.-1 Peter 2:6-8
I understand those who believe in universalism are those believe that all humankind will eventually be saved.
This is not so, as we have heard what apostle Paul have spoken :
So too at the PRESENT TIME there is a REMNANT, chosen by grace. -Romans 11:5
Likewise, apostle James have said, too :
that the REMNANT OF MANKIND may seek the Lord, and all the Gentiles who are called by my name, says the Lord, who makes these things -Acts 15:17
Not only the apostles, also the prophet Micah have spoken:
Who is a God like You, pardoning iniquity and passing over transgression FOR THE REMNANT OF HIS INHERITANCE? He does not retain his anger forever, because he delights in steadfast love. -Micah 7:18
You can see that not all humankind will be saved but only a remnant of mankind that will be saved whom Jesus Christ delivers from the wrath to come.
Concerning “the wicked that will perish”; those who are condemned are those whom we have heard:
Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but WHOEVER DOES NOT BELIEVE IS CONDEMNED ALREADY, because he
has not believed in the name of the only Son of God. -John 3:18
Also, this is also that we have heard:
Whoever BELIEVES in the Son has eternal life; whoever DOES NOT OBEY the Son shall not see life, but
the wrath of God remains on him. -John 3:36
Therefore, those who profess that they believe in the name of the Son of God, Jesus Christ but do not obey the Son, the wrath of God still remains on them unless they repent in true contrition and wholeheartedly.
It can be said that THOSE who believe in the Lord and DOES NOT OBEY the message that the Lord Jesus Christ has given to us and the message that the Lord has spoken through his holy apostles HAVE STUMBLED. This is what we have heard :
Therefore, while the promise of entering his rest still stands, LET US FEAR lest any of you SHOULD SEEM TO HAVE FAILED TO REACH it. -Hebrews 4:1
For good news came to us just as to them, but the message they heard did not benefit them, because
they were not united by faith with those who listened. -Hebrews 4:2
As we have been admonished:
Let us therefore STRIVE TO ENTER THAT REST, so that
no one may FALL by the same sort of disobedience. -Hebrews 4:11
Who partake in the portion of second death ?
This is what we have heard:
But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death." -Revelation 21:8
What we can understand about second death? There are those who have died have gone to Sheol ( the place of the dead ); those whom have sinned like the Lord mentions above are partakers in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur; they also partake the second death.
Don’t think this only affect those who are close to dying !
Consider THIS those who are still in the land of the living :
If a man DOES NOT REPENT, God will whet his sword; He has bent and readied His bow; -Psalms 7:12
He has prepared for him his deadly weapons, making His arrows fiery shafts. -Psalms 7:13
If THIS is spoken those who does not repent, it means the message is spoken to those who are in the land of the living; those who do not repent make themselves God their enemy!
Who happens to those who are in union with Christ?
This is what we have heard:
For since death came through a man,
the resurrection of the dead comes also through a man.
For as in Adam all die,
so
in Christ all will be made alive.
But each in his own turn:
Christ, the firstfruits;
then, when Christ Jesus comes,
those who belong to Him ( Christ).
Then the end will come,
when Christ hands over the kingdom to God the Father
after Christ Jesus has destroyed all dominion, authority and power.
For Christ Jesus must reign until He has put all His enemies under His feet.
The last enemy to be destroyed is death.- 1 Corinthians 15:21-26
Therefore, consider what the Lord Himself have spoken:
Every branch in me that does not bear fruit He ( God the Father ) takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit He ( God the Father) prunes, that it may bear more fruit. -John 15:2
Are we that branch in Christ that bears fruit through obedience in the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ?
Or are we the branch in Christ that God the Father prunes and is thrown into the fire, and burned ?
what should wo do then ? Heed what apostle
Peter have spoken:
Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you,
casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.
Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.
Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world.
And after you HAVE SUFFERED A LITTLE WHILE,
the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.
To him be the dominion forever and ever. Amen.- 1 Peter 5:6-11
God bless you all who fear the Lord who keep His covenant and His testimonies !