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I apologise in advanced for the wall of text and mostly boring topics that have already been done to death. I feel the need to discuss this anyway since it's something I put way too much thought into.

I’ll just get this started by stating that I’ve always truly believed in the unity of all people, across nations, race and class (these two especially being an artificial distinction in my opinion), cultures, gender, sexual orientation, religion, etc. As such, I’ve always looked for ways to unite people of all belief systems, and it’s always bothered me that there is still intense distrust and/or hatred between religious groups (or at least an overall dislike), and that there is still much conflict with religious overtones.

I will first explain that the number one thing preventing unity, in my opinion, is the problem of Hell. Overdone topic, I know, but I’ve always found it deeply troubling. It sounds melodramatic, but it’s borderline hurtful to me that I’ve spent my whole life defending Muslims and Christians, yet a majority of people in both religions would be perfectly okay with me being sent to this weird supernatural version of an Auschwitz on fire except infinitely worse, and instead of eventually dying it just goes on forever. It is honestly just sickening to me that people belief and/or are okay with that. But it’s not about me. The most troubling thing about this is that encourages a sense of superiority and dehumanizes other groups, which obviously presents a huge challenge to acceptance and unity. As a very small example, the idea that I am ‘human trash and going to Hell’ was a justification used by those harassing me (despite Mormonism- the predominate religion in my former area-not even teaching eternal damnation lol), and on a much more severe level it’s an excuse for legitimate persecution of entire peoples for who they are, not what they do. For this reason I have always found it extremely difficult to reconcile Christianity and Islam in particular (excluding some sects of Christianity and individuals in both religions who reject this concept) with other religions and my own atheistic world view. Buddhism, Hinduism, Judaism, Baha’ism, etc. are mostly completely compatible with my own belief system (not that I agree with everything or identify with these religions, hence me being an atheist), and for the most part so are Christianity and Islam. I’ve had very positive relationships with both. It’s just that doctrine of Hell and air of superiority that I think holds them back. When I study these religions and read their scriptures, the overall message, I feel, is not the accepted mainstream doctrine. I feel like the intended message is not that non-Christians/non-Muslims will go to Hell, so I hope Christians and Muslims will give their scriptures/traditions an honest re-evaluation to see if this is true.

Another problem for me (in most major religions) is the problem of mistreating LGBT people. I think this is another issue preventing the unity of all people. LGBT is not really a choice, and most major religions condemn it. This is another area in which I hope we can give an honest re-evaluation. Some of the first countries/regions to legalise gay marriage were predominately Catholic, so I know they can be reconciled (though I wonder what the theological justification for that is myself as someone not too familiar with the Bible :p ).

I think something that religious people and atheists need to realise is that our religious/non-religious identities are not a choice (as many scriptures imply). There is an element of choice (e.g. you can choose to read the Quran, but if you are not genuinely convinced there’s not much else you can do), but really these identities are the product of our upbringing, our environment, our individual instinct and values, with a small element of choice to go with it. That’s why religions form complex societies within themselves and are discussed almost in the same way race and gender are discussed. It’s also why we tend to judge each other for who we are and not what we do.

My atheistic world view accommodates all religions, and I want to find common ground in which all religions can accept each other in addition to atheists. No damning to Hell, no feeling superior to each other, no distrust, no bad feelings, etc. Only full cooperation and genuine acceptance. My instinct combined with basic knowledge tells me that this is consistent with all religious traditions, and if not, challenge me. Hopefully we can make it work.

Some things almost every belief system has in common:
1. We make an honest effort to find the real truth.
2. We strive to live what we feel is a ‘righteous’ life, even if we sometimes disagree on what is ‘righteous’ or whether or not ‘righteousness’ is even an objective concept.
3. We are open to all possibilities

That right there, in my opinion, should be enough for us all to be fully compatible. There is no active rejection of each other’s system, and therefore no reason to distrust each other, feel superior to each other, damn each other to hell, not cooperate with each other, etc.
I’d like for this to be a thread of reconciliation where people can discuss my confusion if you want, but should be open for everyone to introduce new view points on the subject. Or don’t discuss it if this is a bad thread. Wow over 1,000 words I’m such a dork, but hopefully I’ll find a sense of closure to all of this. Basically get every grievance you have with another belief system you have out and let's work it out. Hopefully we'll get some interesting discussion out of it.
 
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I will first explain that the number one thing preventing unity, in my opinion, is the problem of Hell.

Not every Christian believes in eternal suffering. Some hold to annihilationism and others to universal reconciliation.

Another problem for me (in most major religions) is the problem of mistreating LGBT people. I think this is another issue preventing the unity of all people. LGBT is not really a choice, and most major religions condemn it.

Telling someone "No" is not the same thing as mistreating them. I would suggest you read the forum guidelines on this matter though, as it is easy to get threads locked by straying from what is acceptable in discussion.

My atheistic world view accommodates all religions

No it doesn't. It accommodates some bits of many religions but it opposes some bits as well.

Only full cooperation and genuine acceptance

Or in other words you want them to agree with you...
 
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Not every Christian believes in eternal suffering. Some hold to annihilationism and others to universal reconciliation.

I am aware. I though I mentioned that in my post but maybe not (what you see is actually after I trimmed it down lol).

Telling someone "No" is not the same thing as mistreating them. I would suggest you read the forum guidelines on this matter though, as it is easy to get threads locked by straying from what is acceptable in discussion.

We'll just ignore this bit for now (not because I am incapable of discussing it, I just don't want my thread locked. :p )

No it doesn't. It accommodates some bits of many religions but it opposes some bits as well.


My view is not in full agreement with any religion but if fully accommodates them in the sense that I do not consider them to be inferior to my own beliefs. Overall we are completely compatible. It's kind of hard to explain, but disagreeing over something does not mean that we cannot 'accommodate' each other's views. Accepting something as a mere disagreement does not lead to conflict. I guess what I mean is in my own experience, I have never excluded people on the basis of religion (hence 'accommodating', maybe poor word choice on my part). Conversely, I have definitely been harassed and excluded by people due to my atheism, i.e. refusing to 'accommodate' my beliefs. I do not expect or even want everyone to agree with each other on everything, I just want us to not have fear over it. I want all the persecution in our world to go away, given the very real conflicts going on and the de facto segregation I see in my own culture.

Or in other words you want them to agree with you...

To a degree you could think of it like that, but not really. I do not expect anyone to give up their faith or to adjust to my belief system. I do not even want that. By full cooperation I do not mean that we all need to think the same and do the same things, just that we need to tear down many current barriers we place between each other and ideally not feel the need to ostracise any particular group. The only thing I want people to agree on is that there is no need to punish each other or feel superior to each other.

Most of the people on this forum probably never do this anyway, so I know I might unintentionally be condescending. I just don't know who else to discuss this with lol.

btw I did read the guidelines when I first registered, and I just read through them again. I do not feel that I am violating any guidelines but just in case I want to make it clear that I am not trying to promote myself or anything like that. I am just trying to get Christian viewpoints on this and to establish a sort of inter-faith discussion on this, which is the point of the forum.
 
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We'll just ignore this bit for now (not because I am incapable of discussing it, I just don't want my thread locked. :p )

Probably the wisest move ;)

My view is not in full agreement with any religion but if fully accommodates them in the sense that I do not consider them to be inferior to my own beliefs. Overall we are completely compatible. It's kind of hard to explain, but disagreeing over something does not mean that we cannot 'accommodate' each other's views.

Actually, it does. If you accommodate something you give it a home; but you are only willing to give parts of religions a home.

To a degree you could think of it like that, but not really. I do not expect anyone to give up their faith or to adjust to my belief system. I do not even want that. By full cooperation I do not mean that we all need to think the same and do the same things, just that we need to tear down many current barriers we place between each other and ideally not feel the need to ostracise any particular group. The only thing I want people to agree on is that there is no need to punish each other or feel superior to each other.

You promote "Onlyfull cooperation and genuine acceptance". Only is exclusive. In other words you want people to agree with you. This isn't unusual ;) its just that its more fair to admit it rather than try to claim you are open to all when you are as biased as the rest of us. :)
 
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Actually, it does. If you accommodate something you give it a home; but you are only willing to give parts of religions a home.

I guess you are right, depending on what you mean by 'give it a home'. I don't feel like I'm denying it a home.

But come on you know what I'm trying to say, right? :p

You promote "Onlyfull cooperation and genuine acceptance". Only is exclusive. In other words you want people to agree with you. This isn't unusual ;) its just that its more fair to admit it rather than try to claim you are open to all when you are as biased as the rest of us. :)

okay now I know you meant. Yes I will freely acknowledge my biases. :thumbsup:
 
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I don't have a problem with religions that uphold specific taboos for their members. If specific Christian groups hold that you cannot be a member of their community if you fail to live up to those, that's perfectly fine by me.
Heck, if there was a religious group that considered redheads or people with blood type 0 anathema, I might think of them as pretty weird, but it's *their* business to determine who can or cannot be part of their whacky world view.

Many of the problems we face with religious conservatives these days, however, spring from the fact that they want their faith-specific taboos to apply to EVERYONE.
I won't name specific issues in order to uphold the forum rules, but it should be PERFECTLY clear that such discrimination is utterly unacceptable. It's basically the same as trying to ban bacon: based on random religious taboo.
 
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I apologise in advanced for the wall of text and mostly boring topics that have already been done to death. I feel the need to discuss this anyway since it's something I put way too much thought into.

I’ll just get this started by stating that I’ve always truly believed in the unity of all people, across nations, race and class (these two especially being an artificial distinction in my opinion), cultures, gender, sexual orientation, religion, etc. As such, I’ve always looked for ways to unite people of all belief systems, and it’s always bothered me that there is still intense distrust and/or hatred between religious groups (or at least an overall dislike), and that there is still much conflict with religious overtones.

I will first explain that the number one thing preventing unity, in my opinion, is the problem of Hell. Overdone topic, I know, but I’ve always found it deeply troubling. It sounds melodramatic, but it’s borderline hurtful to me that I’ve spent my whole life defending Muslims and Christians, yet a majority of people in both religions would be perfectly okay with me being sent to this weird supernatural version of an Auschwitz on fire except infinitely worse, and instead of eventually dying it just goes on forever. It is honestly just sickening to me that people belief and/or are okay with that. But it’s not about me. The most troubling thing about this is that encourages a sense of superiority and dehumanizes other groups, which obviously presents a huge challenge to acceptance and unity. As a very small example, the idea that I am ‘human trash and going to Hell’ was a justification used by those harassing me (despite Mormonism- the predominate religion in my former area-not even teaching eternal damnation lol), and on a much more severe level it’s an excuse for legitimate persecution of entire peoples for who they are, not what they do. For this reason I have always found it extremely difficult to reconcile Christianity and Islam in particular (excluding some sects of Christianity and individuals in both religions who reject this concept) with other religions and my own atheistic world view. Buddhism, Hinduism, Judaism, Baha’ism, etc. are mostly completely compatible with my own belief system (not that I agree with everything or identify with these religions, hence me being an atheist), and for the most part so are Christianity and Islam. I’ve had very positive relationships with both. It’s just that doctrine of Hell and air of superiority that I think holds them back. When I study these religions and read their scriptures, the overall message, I feel, is not the accepted mainstream doctrine. I feel like the intended message is not that non-Christians/non-Muslims will go to Hell, so I hope Christians and Muslims will give their scriptures/traditions an honest re-evaluation to see if this is true.

Another problem for me (in most major religions) is the problem of mistreating LGBT people. I think this is another issue preventing the unity of all people. LGBT is not really a choice, and most major religions condemn it. This is another area in which I hope we can give an honest re-evaluation. Some of the first countries/regions to legalise gay marriage were predominately Catholic, so I know they can be reconciled (though I wonder what the theological justification for that is myself as someone not too familiar with the Bible :p ).

I think something that religious people and atheists need to realise is that our religious/non-religious identities are not a choice (as many scriptures imply). There is an element of choice (e.g. you can choose to read the Quran, but if you are not genuinely convinced there’s not much else you can do), but really these identities are the product of our upbringing, our environment, our individual instinct and values, with a small element of choice to go with it. That’s why religions form complex societies within themselves and are discussed almost in the same way race and gender are discussed. It’s also why we tend to judge each other for who we are and not what we do.

My atheistic world view accommodates all religions, and I want to find common ground in which all religions can accept each other in addition to atheists. No damning to Hell, no feeling superior to each other, no distrust, no bad feelings, etc. Only full cooperation and genuine acceptance. My instinct combined with basic knowledge tells me that this is consistent with all religious traditions, and if not, challenge me. Hopefully we can make it work.

Some things almost every belief system has in common:
1. We make an honest effort to find the real truth.
2. We strive to live what we feel is a ‘righteous’ life, even if we sometimes disagree on what is ‘righteous’ or whether or not ‘righteousness’ is even an objective concept.
3. We are open to all possibilities

That right there, in my opinion, should be enough for us all to be fully compatible. There is no active rejection of each other’s system, and therefore no reason to distrust each other, feel superior to each other, damn each other to hell, not cooperate with each other, etc.
I’d like for this to be a thread of reconciliation where people can discuss my confusion if you want, but should be open for everyone to introduce new view points on the subject. Or don’t discuss it if this is a bad thread. Wow over 1,000 words I’m such a dork, but hopefully I’ll find a sense of closure to all of this. Basically get every grievance you have with another belief system you have out and let's work it out. Hopefully we'll get some interesting discussion out of it.

Interesting post. God is the God of atheists as well as Christians, Muslims, Buddhists, Sikhs, Hindus, etc.; that is, everyone.
 
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Buddhism, Hinduism, Judaism, Baha’ism, etc. are mostly completely compatible with my own belief system (not that I agree with everything or identify with these religions, hence me being an atheist)

Sounds like you are more of an agnostic or a deist than an atheist.
 
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okay now I know you meant. Yes I will freely acknowledge my biases. :thumbsup:

The point there being that you don't accommodate religions that believe in an eternal Hell, but rather that you discount any belief in such and actively challenge it.

You are not the only one (I don't believe in a literal eternal dumping in the big firey pit to suffer and burn forever - I suspect it's a metaphor for carnal mortality) but it remains that you are only accepting of religions within certain parameters; and so part of what you try to address (ie: "no active rejection of each other’s system" - when you clearly actively reject eternal suffering in a literal Hell).
 
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I recommend a few things Carl...

If you're seriously interested in the "unity of all religions" I'd suggest particpating in inter-faith activities in your community... that way you can see first hand how people of various religions can work together...

There are quite a few service activities that our interfaith community supports..

We used to host what is called World Religion Day in my area..and people from a variety of religions found out they had a lot in common...

While there will be some who might believe in eternal damnation I think they are fewer in number today and their influence is waning...

As far as the issue of sexual choices... and what influence religion has in this area.. a conference on the subject where people can share their views might be appropriate... Civil laws seem to be changing. Some religions seem more open to this particular area than others...but forcing people to adopt something that they don't accept can be doctrinaire as well.
 
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I don't have a problem with religions that uphold specific taboos for their members. If specific Christian groups hold that you cannot be a member of their community if you fail to live up to those, that's perfectly fine by me.
Heck, if there was a religious group that considered redheads or people with blood type 0 anathema, I might think of them as pretty weird, but it's *their* business to determine who can or cannot be part of their whacky world view.

Many of the problems we face with religious conservatives these days, however, spring from the fact that they want their faith-specific taboos to apply to EVERYONE.
I won't name specific issues in order to uphold the forum rules, but it should be PERFECTLY clear that such discrimination is utterly unacceptable. It's basically the same as trying to ban bacon: based on random religious taboo.

Excellent points.
 
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I don't have a problem with religions that uphold specific taboos for their members. If specific Christian groups hold that you cannot be a member of their community if you fail to live up to those, that's perfectly fine by me.
Heck, if there was a religious group that considered redheads or people with blood type 0 anathema, I might think of them as pretty weird, but it's *their* business to determine who can or cannot be part of their whacky world view.

Many of the problems we face with religious conservatives these days, however, spring from the fact that they want their faith-specific taboos to apply to EVERYONE.
I won't name specific issues in order to uphold the forum rules, but it should be PERFECTLY clear that such discrimination is utterly unacceptable. It's basically the same as trying to ban bacon: based on random religious taboo.

Ironically, my faith is basically the opposite. We don't want people to do our religious rituals and such.
 
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Ironically, my faith is basically the opposite. We don't want people to do our religious rituals and such.

What's so ironic about it?
That two of the religions most notorious for shoving their taboos down everybody else's throat claim to be the spiritual descendants of yours?
 
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My view is not in full agreement with any religion but if fully accommodates them in the sense that I do not consider them to be inferior to my own beliefs. Overall we are completely compatible.

This is the attitude that is so needed in this world today.

Thumbs up!
 
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The immediate pain will go away but they found I have arthritis so that's going to be around a while. Only 32 here also so that'll be fun. :)

i'm 34 and in a similar situation. mostly old football and fighting injuries :(

hope you have luck getting your pain under control!
 
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I don't think Christianity or Islam are going to abandon the concepts of Hell. I, for one, believe in the concept of Hell (there is huge Biblical support for the place), but, nor any other Christian, can say who is going there. Only God knows who is truly saved.
 
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