...trying to help with a simple question by sharing their own view.
But, again, the thread didn't ask for opposing views; it asked for the (and I quote) "understanding [of] Adam and Eve
in Calvinism," which, again, is why I found it curious that you would enter this thread and post something else, which is why I asked what you expected to contribute to this thread.
Furthermore, what has been said so far that makes you think we are "not very nice people"? In case you need reminding, I don't think any aggression has come from anyone here...except yourself.
You've use sarcastic nomenclature:
...are you just the on duty contribution police?
You've made false judgments (assumptions) of motive:
You've been somewhat aggressive with your rhetoric:
You've made false judgments of character in an attempt to gain some kind of leg up on people:
...you weren't very nice...
And again:
...your going to have to settle with yourself and continuing to try to justify it...
You've apparently not read the other comments of those conversing with you:
...step back and take a close look at what you have contributed.
You've made yet a third inflammatory character remark:
...you've...showed your arrogance...
You've pretended to understand the belief of others:
...you detest others views...
And then, you draw conclusions about others' character traits based on no evidence:
...you don't seem like very nice people...
Not to mention all your sarcastic, passive-aggressive winking emoticons that follow your little jabs.
Have you ever maybe considered
why Calvinists are so "touchy," even for just a second? Have you ever thought that Calvinists are without really any doubt the most attacked and hated group of believers in all the Body? Even wild-eyed snake-handlers find more acceptance into fellowship than the Calvinist, in my experience. Let me tell you, I have never been called more names, had more of my character assaulted and trampled, and been shown more disgust contempt than when my Calvinism has been brought up. I can't even go on to another general thread—one that is
completely unrelated to Calvinism, mind you—without someone seeing "Calvinist" as my faith tag, proceeding to derail the thread to attack my beliefs, only to then shift blame on me for attempt to come and propagate my beliefs. To be frank, I have been shown far more charity from hardened atheists than I have my own brethren.
Have you ever been the recipient of that kind of behavior? If I ever want to bring the Old Man out of a fellow believer, most of the time all I have to do is mention that I am a Calvinist, and fellowship has almost without question been damaged or altogether demolished. That feels awful, but I am Calvinist by conviction from Scripture and the witness of the Holy Spirit—not tradition, not philosophy, not opinion—Scripture
alone.
So, before you go on your next little rant about how "not nice" we Calvinists have been to you, first of all consider your own behavior in the conversation, which in this instance has been less than satisfactory, and second consider the position of your brother of sister within the body.