Dear 98cwitr. The love God wants from us, is unconditional and beneficial. Love God with all our hearts, with all our souls, and with all all our minds. Also: Love our neighbour as ourselves. Corinthians, chapter 13, verses 4-8. Love is patient, love is kind. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. There is more. The best way to become loving is to start treating all we know and all we meet as we love ourselves. It might be uncomfortable to start, yet once we are on our way, we will realise it is a lovely way to live. Jesus will give us His Love and Joy to share with others, and the Holy Spirit will empower us with His Love. Jesus told us to " ask and ye will receive" and He told us to pray: Father forgive us our trespasses as we will forgive those who trespass against us. We might stumble and fail often, but we get up again, ask forgiveness, and carry on. God will see our sincere efforts, and He will approve and bless us. We are on Earth to learn to become as our Heavenly Father wants us to be: loving children becoming loving sons and daughters, and always follow Jesus: He is our Saviour, and He is the Way, back to where we came from. We are also told to Repent: to change our selfish and unloving behaviour: to loving God with all our beings, and loving each other as we love ourselves. God is Love, and Jesus told us to become perfect as God is perfect. We have much time to learn, and we will find that loving will become easier and easier. All around us people will notice and join us: Love is very catching, and we will enjoy life. We might not reach perfection, but God will see our love grow and grow, selfless and beneficial to all we know and all we meet. I say this with love. Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ.