The_Horses_Boy said:
Thank you for actually discussing what this thread is supposed to be about.
I try.
The_Horses_Boy said:
I would agree, almost wholeheartedly. I think that certain contracts are alright, but not slavery. I do think that the states have right to deny "civil liberties", as that is far too vague.
I would put the rights of the individual, a living human being, ahead of the rights of the State, an artificial construct. Government exists to protect individual rights and liberties, not to deny them. The only legitimate use of governmental power to restrict individual rights is to protect the rights of others (i.e. you do not have the "right" to steal from me, because that violates my right to property).
The_Horses_Boy said:
The biggest thing, I think, is that they have the right to secede. It even says so in our Constitution.
Others have addressed this better than I could have.
I hope you don't mind if I comment on some of your other remarks?
The_Horses_Boy said:
Evolution: no, it isn't. The theory of evolution is the theory to man's origins, not the "theory" that things evolve.
A scientific theory is a model formulated to describe an observed process. Evolution is the observed process; the
Theory of Evolution describes that process. By the same token, we have a "Theory of Gravity" to explain the obesrved fact of gravity.
The_Horses_Boy said:
Secular reason? Besides the fact that that's how over half of the country defines the word, let alone the dictionary, let alone the church, let alone the courts, let alone the states?
You can't derive an "ought" from an "is." Just because a thing
is a certain way, that doesn't mean that is how it
should be.
The_Horses_Boy said:
And the Civil Rights that you are talking about are lame.
The right to visit one's spouse in the hospital when they've had an accident is "lame"? Often, when a person is taken into the hospital after a serious accident, the hospital staff will only let the patient's immediate family members in to see him. Spouses are considered "immediate family;" significant others aren't. Similarly, there are the spousal rights to make medical decisions for one another, and literally hundreds of other rights that heterosexual married couples enjoy that gay people can't access because some people want to get snippy over a definition.
The_Horses_Boy said:
The basic idea of many of those things are for the family (in case you didn't know, it takes a man and a woman to procreate).
Except when it comes to infertile couples, or the elderly. If marriage is defined based on who can procreate, then these groups should be unable to marry.
Further, many gay couples create families as well, whether through adoption, artificial insemination, or surrogate mothers. So shouldn't they have access to the benefits intended for "families"?
The_Horses_Boy said:
Now I would agree that there is a flaw when the law comes into play, but we simply disagree on how to deal with it.
How do you propose to deal with it?
The_Horses_Boy said:
For example let's say I work my butt off and I'm successful and die with an estate in England, industry in Mass. and $100,000,000. You know what happens when I leave it to my kids? Government takes more than any of my kids do, who've worked with me and helped create the family fortune. On the other hand, if I fancied another man I'd marry him and he'd get all of that money tax-free when I die... hmmm...
And if you fancied a woman, you'd marry her and she'd get all of that money tax-free when you die. What's the difference?
The_Horses_Boy said:
Let gays have civil unions, what is wrong with that? Does that not serve the same purpose?
To me, that smacks of "separate but equal," which never is. However, many conservatives don't even want to go so far as to give gay people civil unions.