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Lintyfresh85

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hmm...

Likes animals
Devoted to God
Likes to have fun, but also likes to relax as a couple
Someone that can keep up with me in a conversation
Beautiful smile
Gorgeous Eyes
Self Confidence
Decisive
Supportive
Modest
Enjoys Sports and or Movies

and the biggest turn on....

Makes me laugh! If you can do that... you've got my heart :)
 
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Since the opposite topic did not go very well, I figure maybe I should give this one a try.



Guys that read the Word and apply it to their life.

a body that i'm attracted to

a good personality

kind heart and loving to others

works

happy in herself and life

has a good moral/ethical view

sarcastic humor(maybe even with some harsh language.)

a little "girly" but a little not the "girly" type

long dark hair (brown or black..preferably brown)

someone that is seeking God but is honest about the point they are at. it could mean their faith is going away for whatever reason or that it is getting stronger, but that they are being as honest as they can be in this area.

bluntly honest

emotional
 
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Deep. Eager to have the kinds of conversations that make my brain sweat. major drool points here.

Eager to learn and expand themselves through skills, knowledge, etc. AKA "smarts".

Responsible: with money, with people, with his duties.

Very affectionate. touch. verbal. and so on. all of it. Loves to give love!

Takes initiative in life. I like guys who are confident and courageous enough to make moves, be strong, and go for what they want. Knowing what they want is sort of a precedent I suppose.

We laugh uproariously together. I wanna fall on the ground and have to gasp for air because we have that much fun together.

Honest. Blunt. Vulnerable. Straight with me.

Kind and compassionate to those around him, especially those who are not friends or family.

Hot. But my kind of hot. Like... nerdy/normal guy hot. yummy.

Tattoos/piercings. *shiver*

Passion for his walk with God. A guy who encourages and challenges me in my walk.

Guys who know themselves and are confident in who they are.

Talent. Singing, instruments, art, or whatever.

Manly men. Not mean or violent or pompous... but strong, rough around the edges, and a bit of a hero complex ;)

Cooking skills.

the list goes on...
 
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- Smokers. Yes, I know.
- Jet black/ebony hair. Points if its extremely thick/course as well.
- Fair skin.
- Taller than me. I like to be towered over, so 5'10" and up is preferable.
- Stubble. No full on beards.
- Glasses.
- Broad shoulders.
- Really, really good music taste. Not the same as mine, per se, but definately an eclectic taste in the arts.
- Bilingual/multi-lingual.
- Well spoken/artichulate.
- Willing to travel - a lot.

And I don't tend to ask this right now, as I'm nearly a decade away from being ready to settle down, but:

- Someone who is not interested in having a large family/house full of kids.
- Intends to live in a city. No-one who wants a house in the suburbs.

Thats just my preferences. There are plenty of dudes who haven't fit these, and I've still found attractive.
 
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Since the opposite topic did not go very well, I figure maybe I should give this one a try.



Guys that read the Word and apply it to their life.

ok i have a huge list. in NO specific order.

1. legs(especially thighs)
2. neck
3. face
4. eyes
5. mouth
6. breasts
7. butt
8. the softness of a woman's hands
9. hair(preferably dark brown or black)
10. hips and the general area of the hips
11. blunt honesty and no fickleness
12. high self-esteem
13. kind and gracious heart
14. white skin tone, excluding white skin tone that is fried by the sun. there is a world of difference between a healthy shine and skin that looks like cancer.
15. humor
16. the ability to talk to me about anything. stupid, or serious.
17. humbleness
18. some kind of belief about religious/philosophical things, even tho as long as she is being honest about her faith, or her lack of faith and can accept mine, we're good to go to check off list #18.
19. works and works hard at her job.
20. strives to be non-hypocritical which entails back to the blunt honesty part.
21. a moral/ethical way of life that is meshable with mine.
22. acceptance.

there we go. :D
 
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