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Turn-ons!!!

penNpaper

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Well, right, but you're never going to find someone in, you know, EXACTLY the same place as you are on your path to enlightenment/righteousness/Godliness/however you want to put it. Where do you, in particular, set the parameters?

Well everyone has their own opinion on the matter..

True it can't be 100% in the same level to one's beliefs..

There isn't really a set limit, here is the bar to the Level of Righteous with God and His Children..

It all comes down to where your at with your owns beliefs and the level between your life partner..no one is perfect alright. Everyone has their flaws, we surely are humans after all u no..

I believe there can be a balance between you and your life partner to set that bar level in loving God with a passion and so on..to balance each other out..in the end result in marriage and starting a family together..

Regards,
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I know I am probably not in the majority, but it is a big turn on for me when a girl plays sports ultra agressively. The super competitive nature is awesome. I love to see a girl that is nice and sweet turn into an aggressive animal playing sports.

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Argh, Keri beat me to it! Good topic.

Mine are...

-Open-minded in general.
-Is a connoisseur, like me.
-Bluntly honest with me, even when it hurts.
-Communication is job number 1.
-Good fashion sense, and good taste in music.
-On the same page as I am, spiritually.
-She has to be able to take sarcasm, and to dish it out. Without me having to explain it to her every time I am sarcastic.
-Very feminine.
-Yet, while being feminine, still can enjoy a lot of the "guy stuff" I do (sports, cigars, beer, UFC)
-Not overly suntanned. If she is white, I prefer fair skin.
-Very cute mannerisms in general, including and especially a unique and cute way of saying certain words.

And of course, this wouldn't be an ImperialPhantom reply without the last one...

-Killer buns and thighs.
 
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Keri

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Argh, Keri beat me to it! Good topic.

Haha. Yeah I figured since you got my last one closed, I would make a positive one, less likely to turn negative.

-Yet, while being feminine, still can enjoy a lot of the "guy stuff" I do (sports, cigars, beer, UFC)

Isn't UFC how I first met you back in the day? I remember getting a rep comment from you about it.

And of course, this wouldn't be an ImperialPhantom reply without the last one...

-Killer buns and thighs.

HAHA! You never quit do ya? ;)
 
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*sigh* you and every other woman.


As for myself, aside from the obvious physical attractions, I think the biggest turn ons for me are people with a good sense of humor, that don't get all uptight over little things, easy going, but not living a stagnant life. I think i also like it when they like things I do, for instance girlie computer geeks :)

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gvsuman

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where are you ladies at? and why don't you live closer to me???

turn ons for me are:
-respect for everyone from young to old
-cares about herself and the way she presents herself
-a fabulous sense of humor
-and this certain twinkle in her eye when she smiles
 
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memoriesbymichelle

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Seeing men in church that are not afraid to worship God and raise their hands if they feel like it, is VERY attractive to me!

I tend to go for the hero types even though I am very independent and don't really want or need to be rescued.


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KomissarSteve

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Seeing men in church that are not afraid to worship God and raise their hands if they feel like it, is VERY attractive to me!

What if it's not an issue of fear, but rather that they don't feel that's the way God wants them, in particular, to worship Him? (them as individuals; not that they believe God wants NOBODY to do this, obviously)
 
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memoriesbymichelle

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What if it's not an issue of fear, but rather that they don't feel that's the way God wants them, in particular, to worship Him? (them as individuals; not that they believe God wants NOBODY to do this, obviously)

Of course I am not assuming that every man that DOESN't worship God this way is "afraid". The question was what turns you on? I just happen to think it's VERY attractive to see men worship God as IF no one else was watching (which is how I worship). I find it attractive. NO put downs or offenses are intended. I was just stating my personal opinion. Maybe I didn't use the perfect words. Please forgive me if you are offended by this.

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