- Jul 3, 2022
- 70
- 34
- Country
- United States
- Faith
- Christian
- Marital Status
- In Relationship
Hi all,
So months before my ex and I broke up, he took over the apartment I was living in and I went to live with friends (we never lived together fyi). I am still on the lease at that place. It costs $250 to do a lease change to get my name off the lease. My ex and I are not talking to each other. We broke up 4 month ago, and I want to go down to the office and sign the forms, and then tell them to just put the fee on the account and make him pay for it. But I'd already told him don't worry about changing the lease if it costs money. It would be no skin off his back to pay for it, but it's a lot of money for me.
The other issue is, when I moved out of the apartment, I left a lot of my stuff there for him to hold on to while I lived with friends. And then in May we broke up, and in July I moved to a new apartment. It took him TWO TRIES to figure out what was my stuff vs what was his, and he still has my over the door coat rack. Again, I'd told him, whatevers left, don't worry about it. But then 4 months later I found his expensive water bottle in my car; I returned it to our mutual friends and I said I wanted my coat rack back in return. My friend gave him the bottle at church, but apparently he said he's not going to bring the coat rack to church. I never said to do that; how hard is it for him to drive up to their house and drop it off by the door or something? Not sure how many days passed between them telling him and him actually getting the bottle back, but I still don't have my coat rack back.
I feel like I just need to let it all go; just ignore the lease and count my coat rack as long gone. But it's just frustrating. How do you stare at something that's NOT YOURS for months and then not give it back when you gather up all the stuff to return?
So months before my ex and I broke up, he took over the apartment I was living in and I went to live with friends (we never lived together fyi). I am still on the lease at that place. It costs $250 to do a lease change to get my name off the lease. My ex and I are not talking to each other. We broke up 4 month ago, and I want to go down to the office and sign the forms, and then tell them to just put the fee on the account and make him pay for it. But I'd already told him don't worry about changing the lease if it costs money. It would be no skin off his back to pay for it, but it's a lot of money for me.
The other issue is, when I moved out of the apartment, I left a lot of my stuff there for him to hold on to while I lived with friends. And then in May we broke up, and in July I moved to a new apartment. It took him TWO TRIES to figure out what was my stuff vs what was his, and he still has my over the door coat rack. Again, I'd told him, whatevers left, don't worry about it. But then 4 months later I found his expensive water bottle in my car; I returned it to our mutual friends and I said I wanted my coat rack back in return. My friend gave him the bottle at church, but apparently he said he's not going to bring the coat rack to church. I never said to do that; how hard is it for him to drive up to their house and drop it off by the door or something? Not sure how many days passed between them telling him and him actually getting the bottle back, but I still don't have my coat rack back.
I feel like I just need to let it all go; just ignore the lease and count my coat rack as long gone. But it's just frustrating. How do you stare at something that's NOT YOURS for months and then not give it back when you gather up all the stuff to return?