My fiancee and i are going through a tough issue, or should i say I am. Recently he went hunting and went to a strip club. I was uneasy about it and told him that i didnt agree and that it was wrong, and he agreed not to go up there again and he wouldnt put himself in that position. Wel it has been a week and i keep thinking about it, mainly becasue he mentions it here and there to his buddies. I asked him not to keep bringing it up because it hurt my feelings. Well it is driving my crazy, and i cant stop thkning about him at the strip club, getting a lapdance and spening our money on someone who takes he clothes off for a living. I told him that it broke my heart and it made me feel pretty much unwanted. His reply was that it is a surface feeling and he doesnt understand why i am making such a bug deal out of it. It makes me feel like he just doesnt care about my feelings. What makes it worse, as a christian man, he says he doesnt understand how it was wrong, and that he didnt want to go there in the first place, but it just happened. I told him that he always has a chioice, and i was gettign heated and called him selfish. He said i waqs being rediculous, and now i have slept in the guest room for the past two nights because i dont even want to touch him. Please help me out.......
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