Trying To Be Saved

[Brian Martin]

Hello Everyone,
Let me say thank you for letting me join this forum as this is my first post. I have a real serious issue and could use support/prayers. I will keep this as short as possible.

I grew up going to a Lutheran church and Sunday school but faded away once I was confirmed. About two years ago I went through a nasty break up and for some reason

I was prompted one night to Google churches in my area and started going. During my talks with my pastor he said God always haves his hands on you and guides you through your life.

I understand and can accept this truly, in the past two years I joined a small bible group and actively go to church but deep down I feel like I'm missing something. In my past relationship I never put God first and in my current one we do our best, we are not perfect but we pray together and go to church together.

I have severe depression which stems from previous relationships and my girlfriend has mental issues. Two years ago going to Church I felt like my life was getting back in order, and after finding out that my girlfriend was Lutheran Christian I felt like God set up us to match. Right now times are tough, with my issues and my girlfriends issues, I feel like perhaps God is using this event to prove something to me but I don't know what. A year ago I felt I was saved when I accepted Jesus as my savior but right now I feel like I'm missing something my life. I'm hoping someone out there can relate to what I'm missing and can guide me to an answer.

 

[KnowHisJoy77]

Hey Brian Martin, welcome to CF!

Severe depression is very tough to deal with... I went through that for years, isolated, in denial, having no will, procrastinating, lacking strength, no help.
And your girlfriend is also depressed?
You both need to get help, get into a Christian support group to deal with mental issues you are struggling with. Keep going to the meetings, doing the steps, sharing, being honest and open etc things will going to change. I know they will when you trust and surrender to God, they do.

God bless you.

 

[Jeshu]

The best thing is not to trust your feelings but rather the promises God made to you in the bible. Hold on tightly to the truth of your salvation and let God's Word teach you to cope with your depressive spells. Learn to trust God even if everything seems or feels wrong. God can turn a terrible time into something good. Put your hope in God He will not disappoint you.


Jesus rescues

When depression reigns
and all seems lost!
When regrets demand an ear
shame and guilt burn our hearts!

When loneliness attacks
and despair pounds!
When hopelessness compels
and the pit looms!

Then call upon Jesus
and let Him save you!
Then cling to His love
His grace will comfort you!

Then shelter underneath His wings
and find protection from bad life!
Then in His love there is safety
as we are made anew!

 

[orangeness365]

I think you are just thirsting for more of God, even though you are going to Bible study and church.

 

[Chaplain David]

Hello Everyone,
Let me say thank you for letting me join this forum as this is my first post. I have a real serious issue and could use support/prayers. I will keep this as short as possible.

I grew up going to a Lutheran church and Sunday school but faded away once I was confirmed. About two years ago I went through a nasty break up and for some reason

I was prompted one night to Google churches in my area and started going. During my talks with my pastor he said God always haves his hands on you and guides you through your life.

I understand and can accept this truly, in the past two years I joined a small bible group and actively go to church but deep down I feel like I'm missing something. In my past relationship I never put God first and in my current one we do our best, we are not perfect but we pray together and go to church together.

I have severe depression which stems from previous relationships and my girlfriend has mental issues. Two years ago going to Church I felt like my life was getting back in order, and after finding out that my girlfriend was Lutheran Christian I felt like God set up us to match. Right now times are tough, with my issues and my girlfriends issues, I feel like perhaps God is using this event to prove something to me but I don't know what. A year ago I felt I was saved when I accepted Jesus as my savior but right now I feel like I'm missing something my life. I'm hoping someone out there can relate to what I'm missing and can guide me to an answer.

I'm glad you're saved and trying to stay close to the Lord. These things are super important in my book. But are you seeing anyone for your depression? Counseling can really be helpful in situations like yours. If I were to seek counseling for depression I'd look for a Licensed Professional Counselor or Social Worker. Pastors are great people to talk with about spiritual and relationship issues. But counselors handle mental health difficulties. I've had counseling in my life and am very glad that I did.

Faithfully,