trusting in others

[JThomas]

I have struggled my same sex attractions since I was a kid, and have had ups and downs over the years. Consequently I get extremely nervous around any guy I have not known for a long time. Now being in college, that is my everyday reality. I feel this massive gap between me and my peers, and in my head I always either am constantly judging how the treat me to see if they think I am gay, or wondering if they want to sleep with me. While neither is probably true(except for when my friends boyfriend came on to me), I still have this incoherent feeling of being separate or less of a man than they are. I have never told anyone my struggles, and the one time I tried to, it turned into a year long back and forth of him trying to be in a relationship(I refused). How can I build up that trust in other guys and get past these past experiences?

 

[tunnelhckrat]

We are asked not to judge others, this is a hard thng for many of us to do. Ask Jesus for guidance. Remember not to judge others, if they say something to you take it as face value. And love your nieghbors as you would have them love you.

 

[Me19041985]

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