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You sound more like an apatheist to me. (Apathy + theist)


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Yup. You're making exactly the "argument" I thought you were making. And since it's neither new nor interesting and you are quite remarkably rude to boot, I'm not going to waste any more time on you. Unlike you, I'm fairly polite, so you may have the last word if you want it. I'll probably post a complete syllogism of your argument in a day or so.
 
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(Emphasis mine)
Why? Will this syllogism clear up what this all is even about?
 
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<I have more important things in my life than worrying about pleasing some maniacal deity who will burn me in the fires of hell for all eternity because I didn't live my life like he wanted. I mean really, 10,000,000,000+ years of pain and torture for 60 or so (i'm a smoker) years of dissidence? God seems to have some anger management issues.

A dangerous boast.

Most Christians can't fathom how God could punish someone to the level of an eternal Hell. However, when you understand what is gained and the price that was paid to give you that opportunity, it becomes a little clearer.

For anyone who has experienced the new birth and the infilling of the Holy Spirit, and the subsequent supernatural joy, peace, and love that is a gift, a not of yourself, all for the price of faith and obedience, it is a gift beyond compare. Also, from time to time great spiritual blessings, protection, and knowledge is imparted, and is just a fraction of the life a Christian has to look forward to. God said in His new covenant, that all believers would know Him from the greatest to the least. It is in seeking that we find Him. The whole experience will only compound and grow endlessly, while those who shun him, loving their own wicked deeds more, will experience the counterpart to those joys, which is great and endless torment. Nothing to be scoffed at for lack of understanding. If anything, an attitude where one is looking carefully would be far more wise.

People forsake their own mercy with their boasting and trivial attitudes. Every man should be a seeker. Each person who becomes a believer was at one time one estranged from the revelation of God. Each Christian had his day. I certainly don't criticize others who don't see, but I do encourage all to remain humble and open, since those who do find God are usually those who were in such a state as this.

You might think to yourself that if there was a supreme being, you'd want to know Him. God won't throw Himself at you, so being a seeker with a sensitive heart would seem like a good idea, wouldn't it?

You can't witness that someone has resurrected from the dead, unless you encounter them personally. That is what He said in His Word. That's what He's looking for. Millions have this testimony, so at least a consideration of this would be wise.

Much different than...

<I have more important things in my life than worrying about pleasing some maniacal deity who will burn me in the fires of hell for all eternity
 
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<I have more important things in my life than worrying about pleasing some maniacal deity who will burn me in the fires of hell for all eternity because I didn't live my life like he wanted. I mean really, 10,000,000,000+ years of pain and torture for 60 or so (i'm a smoker) years of dissidence? God seems to have some anger management issues.

A dangerous boast.

Most Christians can't fathom how God could punish someone to the level of an eternal Hell. However, when you understand what is gained and the price that was paid to give you that opportunity, it becomes a little clearer.

For anyone who has experienced the new birth and the infilling of the Holy Spirit, and the subsequent supernatural joy, peace, and love that is a gift, a not of yourself, all for the price of faith and obedience, it is a gift beyond compare. Also, from time to time great spiritual blessings, protection, and knowledge is imparted, and is just a fraction of the life a Christian has to look forward to. God said in His new covenant, that all believers would know Him from the greatest to the least. It is in seeking that we find Him. The whole experience will only compound and grow endlessly, while those who shun him, loving their own wicked deeds more, will experience the counterpart to those joys, which is great and endless torment. Nothing to be scoffed at for lack of understanding. If anything, an attitude where one is looking carefully would be far more wise.

People forsake their own mercy with their boasting and trivial attitudes. Every man should be a seeker. Each person who becomes a believer was at one time one estranged from the revelation of God. Each Christian had his day. I certainly don't criticize others who don't see, but I do encourage all to remain humble and open, since those who do find God are usually those who were in such a state as this.

You might think to yourself that if there was a supreme being, you'd want to know Him. God won't throw Himself at you, so being a seeker with a sensitive heart would seem like a good idea, wouldn't it?

You can't witness that someone has resurrected from the dead, unless you encounter them personally. That is what He said in His Word. That's what He's looking for. Millions have this testimony, so at least a consideration of this would be wise.

Much different than...

<I have more important things in my life than worrying about pleasing some maniacal deity who will burn me in the fires of hell for all eternity
 
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What about us ex-believers? We had seeked, we thought we had found, then we realized the truth. We don't need to seek, since we've been there, done that, and got the t-shirt.
 
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A dangerous boast.
Why?

Most Christians can't fathom how God could punish someone to the level of an eternal Hell.
So then...erm...let's just ignore that inconvenient detail.

However, when you understand what is gained and the price that was paid to give you that opportunity, it becomes a little clearer.
Well, the missing element here is what is the opportunity and price of not prostrating yourself to the abstract idea?

My experience so far has the people who find god to be the ones who are emotionally in need of finding god or some alternative. God and groupies are an emotional narcotic. This has to be true because there is no objective reason to at all.

You might think to yourself that if there was a supreme being, you'd want to know Him. God won't throw Himself at you, so being a seeker with a sensitive heart would seem like a good idea, wouldn't it?
Not really. Because neurotically pinning your hopes and dreams and expending your love on an abstract concept seems like a waste to me. It also seems like an avoidance of responsibility. This is hell on earth.

You can't witness that someone has resurrected from the dead, unless you encounter them personally.
Which will never happen because no one ever lives to tell the tale.

That is what He said in His Word. That's what He's looking for. Millions have this testimony, so at least a consideration of this would be wise.
The opposite of wise. Millions believe all sorts of stupidity. Millions voted for George W Bush. Accurate knowledge is not very well correlated to the volume of opinions one collects. Good grief. I mean, really.
 
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So we have to keep seeking until we settle on beliefs that match theirs? Makes sense.
Keep seeking until you get addicted. Brainwash yourself. That's the objective reality of it, right?

I am interested in this addiction idea. What is your insider experience? It occurs to me that god is a jealous god. Not only of other gods but certainly of other addictive pleasures. Sex, gambling, drinking, pride, gluttony, other religions. Is this part of the entrapment: to deny yourself all other addictive pleasures so as to remain focussed and hungry for your divine fix?
 
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<What about us ex-believers? We had seeked, we thought we had found, then we realized the truth. We don't need to seek, since we've been there, done that, and got the t-shirt.

I used to be one of those myself. In reality, not believers at all. I used to go play church from a little boy, completely sincere. I had water sprinkled on me as a baby. I went through the motions as a Catholic boy. First communion and confirmation. I never had entered into covenant with God according to His Word. That's what He confirms. His plan, typically not the one much of organized religion employs.

It was about confirmation time, when we were asked to actually read the gospels on our own. I could see from Jesus' Words that it was a far cry from what we had going in church. I knew that He required a lot more, in fact everything. I was 14 and was looking forward to driving and seeing the world. I couldn't bring myself to the life I read about, so I left the church shortly after that.

I was 24 and reading a Bible on my bed when I had a revelation from God on who Jesus was. Seeing the condition of My heart, He came in and I was gloriously born again. I became on of those you'd see the stickers for on cars in the 80s: "I found it!" I really did! I read a book on Catholic pentecostalism the same night and was filled with the Spirit. I really had it now! Every church person should have their own conversion experience. Your parents cannot make that choice for you. Those who hear the voice of the Lord in their heart (He knocks) and you say yes, becomes born again.

Just going to church, however well meaning doesn't make anyone a Christian. You have to do it His way. Literally millions of so called Christians go to church and live lives that are bad examples. People don't want a life like that and they forsake church. I can hardly blame them. God is meeting people outside the church, wherever they are, when they really seek the truth. You have to be looking and open to hear it.

<I didn't really find?

Oh yes, I found it. He speaks too. He's just like it was in the book of Acts. A day is as a thousand years to the Lord. That makes it the day before yesterday in His eyes from the Book of Acts. (He's not passing out any shirts.)

He's same as He was before. Your heart has to "hear" the knock before He enters in. If you think it's not real, that tells me you didn't hear the knock. Most likely, you didn't hear the preaching of the Word for conversion. He confirms the Word, not tradition.

He's not moved by the fact that people who don't know Him get into sin. He'll come to you in spite of it all, and you'll know Him, and be a witness to His resurrection.

How can there be no God and everything just fell into place? Look at how precious little babies are, animals too. Where do you get your sense of humor? It's not random. Ever been in love? It's a natural love (different from God's), but as intense as it can be, it is all good, as they say. It takes amino acids to make protein, and protein to make amino acids. They have to have been created. Compassion, an appreciation for character, these are all traits we've been given. We're so far above the animals, it seems quite foolish to think that we're in any way related. Our little footstool here has just somehow become this self-sustaining environment above all the other planetary bodies. Ask a doctor who marvels as the human body and its complexity. Ask them when people who flatlined, with no brain waves make it back with a testimony of God.

There are no accidents. It's all for a purpose. Those who see past the external, humble and seeking, will eventually find. It's a very serious matter. When you bury your friends, doesn't it hurt you to think that it is over for them, as though they didn't matter? They do matter, and you matter. We're here for one pass. I truly hope that you do find. There's no time for religious games.
 
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<<Most Christians can't fathom how God could punish someone to the level of an eternal Hell.
<So then...erm...let's just ignore that inconvenient detail.

That's what the enemy would like you to do.

<Well, the missing element here is what is the opportunity and price of not prostrating yourself to the abstract idea?

If that's all it was, that would be very empty. A missing element. But since God's presence is manifested before, within, and among those who walk in covenant with Him, according to His ways, it's not a missing element or an abstract idea

<This has to be true because there is no objective reason to at all.

The objective reason is that the tendency to do it is put within us by God Himself. Look at the billions who do. Though they don't understand, or call on the names of many "gods", they have an inner need to do so.

<Because neurotically pinning your hopes and dreams and expending your love on an abstract concept seems like a waste to me. It also seems like an avoidance of responsibility. This is hell on earth.

It would be if it were only abstract. The responsibility is walking according to the light you receive. If you don't have light, you don't relate to seeing anything, because seeing requires light. If it's hell on earth, it's because their is a "god" of this world, the enemy and his disobedient minions, who go about oppressing those who walk the earth.

<You can't witness that someone has resurrected from the dead, unless you
encounter them personally. Which will never happen because no one ever lives to tell the tale.

I tell you He lives because He has come to me, revealed Himself by His Spirit, spoken to me, and did everything else just like His Word said He would.

<Accurate knowledge is not very well correlated to the volume of opinions one
collects. Good grief. I mean, really.

It's not about numbers. The number of those who really know Him are only a small minority, a "remnant" according to grace. It's about the condition of your heart that allows you to see. If you're a scoffer and not a seeker, you won't see any light. Those in darkness not only can't see, but they don't relate to people who do or that there is anything to see in the first place.
 
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Misattribution errors. Paucity of knowledge about nature, human psychology and statistics. You are just apportioning things you cannot understand to supernatural causes.

No one wants to die, except the suicidal. Death is very scary. Death is very sad for surviving friends and relatives. However, why do you have the arrogance to suggest that a final end to a person renders their life as not mattering! If you weren't so wrapped up in your own security-blanket fantasy you would be more respectful of the dead and value their lives even more highly as you would appreciate how finite and precious they are.
 
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<Misattribution errors. Paucity of knowledge about nature, human psychology and statistics. You are just apportioning things you cannot understand to supernatural causes.

Which of the above do you apply to these?

Look at how precious little babies are, animals too. Where do you get your sense of humor?

While it is "human nature" to love our young, look at how precious they are. It helps us to overcome their many faults, and we see their beauty.

Statistical humor? That's a tough one. We do understand these things. These attributes show how we are created in God's image. We appreciate character, justice, fairness.

<However, why do you have the arrogance to suggest that a final end to a person renders their life as not mattering!

Of course it matters to family and those affected by their lives. In reality though, after some time passes (generations), they are no longer relevant. If that was all it was for, then they hardly mattered. If however, they live forever, what they did carries on through eternity. It continues. It really had relevance and meaning.

<If you weren't so wrapped up in your own security-blanket fantasy you would be more respectful of the dead and value their lives even more highly as you would appreciate how finite and precious they are.

I do respect the dead, but if you mean so much to those here, and then you're gone for the eternal count. Where is the meaning? Why does it end? Why does it have to end? It doesn't, and they are relevant because their deeds carry past this world. That is why they matter past the lifetimes of their families.

It's no fantasy. It's no security blanket, because we are accountable for what we do, which means, there are consequences to doing the wrong thing. I wouldn't waste my time entreating those who don't believe if I didn't think they mattered. Odds are good we'll never meet, and yet to me you do matter.
 
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God is meeting people outside the church, wherever they are, when they really seek the truth. You have to be looking and open to hear it.
Which is a convenience for the apologist. If an atheist prays for God to reveal himself, one of two things can happen:

  1. The atheist has a religious experience, or
  2. The atheist does not have a religious experience.
The Christian can smugly attribute the former to God (regardless of whether God really did cause the experience), and the latter to insincerity on the atheists part (regardless of the actual sincerity of the atheist). You define people's sincerity on the success or failure of this ritual, which is absurd - if God doesn't exist, the most insincere atheist can have a brain aneurysm and 'see God', while the most devout theist can simply fail.

And who's fault is it if he isn't knocking loud enough? We're surrounded by doors, with different people telling us to open their door and only their door, and we're not even convinced that anyone's knocking. Once you convince us that someone's actually knocking on the door, maybe we'll take your claims more seriously. Till then...

How can there be no God and everything just fell into place?
Quite easily.

Look at how precious little babies are, animals too. Where do you get your sense of humor? It's not random. Ever been in love? It's a natural love (different from God's), but as intense as it can be, it is all good, as they say.
That there are pleasent things in this world hardly proves God exists; he is not required for such things to occur. Indeed, if nice things like babies and Monty Python can only exist with God, then it follows that nasty things like famine and disease can only exist with God too.

And yet, we are.

Someone who has been declared brain-dead has risen from the the grave? Can you substantiate this claim?

Then why does God leave us in a sea of religions, without any indication which one is true - or even if any is true? And why should it matter what religion we pick? Is God so petty that we not only have to believe he exists, but we have to believe in precisely the right way? Why should our eternal destiny depend on which country we were born in (because, y'know, you, Alive_Again, wouldn't have been a Christian were you born in a mud hut in the Amazon), rather than our moral worth? Why don't we all get a free ticket to Heaven?

So many questions, so little time. Like you said, we only get one pass. So worrying about which religion to pick is just a time-waster: either it doesn't matter, so I won't worry about it, or it does matter, in which case I have no idea which religion to pick, so I just don't worry about it.
 
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<Misattribution errors. Paucity of knowledge about nature, human psychology and statistics. You are just apportioning things you cannot understand to supernatural causes.

Which of the above do you apply to these?
All of them.

Look at how precious little babies are, animals too. Where do you get your sense of humor?
My limbic system.

While it is "human nature" to love our young, look at how precious they are. It helps us to overcome their many faults, and we see their beauty.
Yes.

Statistical humor? That's a tough one. We do understand these things. These attributes show how we are created in God's image. We appreciate character, justice, fairness.
Your attribution of unique characteristics and circumstances for planet Earth is due to statistical naivety.
We developed all these divine characteristics with the help of nature, not god.

No. You are so belittling of human life that I am beside myself.

I do respect the dead, but if you mean so much to those here, and then you're gone for the eternal count. Where is the meaning?
The meaning is with those you relate to while alive and the things you create that outlast you. Like children. Nothing matters to anyone but people, like you and I.

Why does it end? Why does it have to end? It doesn't, and they are relevant because their deeds carry past this world. That is why they matter past the lifetimes of their families.
You are asking the wrong question. The right question is why did it start at all and why did I get to be alive for a while? The normal state of matter is not to be conscious. When you die you simply become normal again. Sort of like when you are in dreamless sleep.
People matter because of the influence they have on those who they can matter to. After people die, their influence persists. If one only positively influences a single other person then one has achieved something worthwhile. Life should be something to to feel great to have the opportunity of, not a torment of seeking adequate meaning for oneself.

Thanks for telling me I matter. But to whom do I matter? To you? But you know nothing about me. Do I matter because you think I matter or do I matter because you think god matters and god says I matter?
Well, you have a higher hurdle to jump to earn the love of a non-believer because they are not answerable to a higher power.
 
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<No. You are so belittling of human life that I am beside myself.

I look at it the other way around. What good is it to you if you die, and if your body is the real you, you return to dust, and you don't continue. The thought really doesn't count as they try to say. If you're gone, you're just a memory. No matter how many people you influence for the better, for you it is over. It is belittling to think that it ends there. It doesn't end there.

<You are asking the wrong question. The right question is why did it start at all and why did I get to be alive for a while?

We know from God's Word that He created man for His pleasure. That is why you are here.

<Thanks for telling me I matter. But to whom do I matter? To you? But you know nothing about me. Do I matter because you think I matter or do I matter because you think god matters and god says I matter?

You matter because God lives on the inside of me, and He living through me indicates to me that you matter. God coming to reside on the inside of you is not a casual thing. You do tend to notice. The religious feed that to you and people believe it without any manifestation. They think they're honoring God to declare that, but He only says that if you come to Him His way, by His covenant. Also, He has indicated that He's holding humanity responsible to receive the provision of His Son for the sins of mankind (their sins). If they don't, they'll burn eternally. Knowing this, I feel obligated to share that you do matter. You matter enough that you can actually have God come to live inside of you like He said, and you can miss Hell.

<Well, you have a higher hurdle to jump to earn the love of a non-believer because they are not answerable to a higher power.

That's the deception. Every man is accountable. Please don't make that your final answer. At least be a seeker and don't be convinced before the time.
 
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