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I need someone to talk to..I feel lonely because I fell to temptation again. I really tried to avoid it but sometimes it can manage to get thru me. I felt I have offended not only my family,myself but Jesus as well. Lord knows how I prayed so hard and tried to live in a manner benefiting Christ. I wish there is someone out there that would just lend an ear to and a shoulder to lean on. thanks...
 

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We all do that, and I know it makes you feel awful. But the important thing is not falling, but getting up and going on.
If you believe the bible, remember what it says:
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.(John1:9)

That means that you are as righteous as you were before you sinned.
Sometimes, forgiving ourselves is the hardest thing... but you need to do so to move on.

Hope that things get better :hug:
 
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So true...

We all do that, and I know it makes you feel awful. But the important thing is not falling, but getting up and going on.
If you believe the bible, remember what it says:
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.(John1:9)

That means that you are as righteous as you were before you sinned.
Sometimes, forgiving ourselves is the hardest thing... but you need to do so to move on.

Hope that things get better :hug:
 
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God forgives you and loves you, try and be like God because he's already forgiven you and wants you to forgive yourself too. We are all sinners, no one is perfect except God. We are all equal and deserve self-forgiveness and self-respect. I am praying for you. Happy 2010!
 
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thank you guys for that very inspiring words..i really appreciate it..i just felt awful during that moment, anyways, I feel better now and with this new year ahead of us, im looking forward for a new life..no more of that old stuff for me..have it consider a thing of the past...

i never felt so relieved after joining CF..i mean i really appreciate the nice and inspiring words that you shared..thank you very much again guys and I thank Jesus for showing you guys to me...happy new year to all!
 
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And an awesome new year to you too, my friend. :hug:

thank you guys for that very inspiring words..i really appreciate it..i just felt awful during that moment, anyways, I feel better now and with this new year ahead of us, im looking forward for a new life..no more of that old stuff for me..have it consider a thing of the past...

i never felt so relieved after joining CF..i mean i really appreciate the nice and inspiring words that you shared..thank you very much again guys and I thank Jesus for showing you guys to me...happy new year to all!
 
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We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us.

How are things going?

I hope you are doing better.

blessings

Thank you annrobert :) Im doing just fine :clap:

God works in mysterious ways really..I thank him for giving me wonderful friends like you and the rest of the guys in CF and of course for giving me such a wonderful family.

Im into a good start this year and looking forward to become a good christian not by words but by faith.

God bless! :groupray:
 
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That is wonderful that you are doing well.
The people here are so loving and kind and supportive.
I am so happy to hear you are off to a good start.
faith hope and charity is what abides and is such an awesome gift from God.
Jesus loves you deeply and nothing can seperate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.We are precious in His sight.


1 Thessalonians 5:8
But let us, who are of the day, be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love; and for an helmet, the hope of salvation.



Hebrews 11:1
Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.

1 Corinthians 13:13
And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.


John 7:38
He that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water.


for without me ye can do nothing.
7If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.

Psalm 139


1O lord, thou hast searched me, and known me.

2Thou knowest my downsitting and mine uprising, thou understandest my thought afar off.

3Thou compassest my path and my lying down, and art acquainted with all my ways.

4For there is not a word in my tongue, but, lo, O LORD, thou knowest it altogether.

5Thou hast beset me behind and before, and laid thine hand upon me.

6Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; it is high, I cannot attain unto it.

7Whither shall I go from thy spirit? or whither shall I flee from thy presence?

8If I ascend up into heaven, thou art there: if I make my bed in hell, behold, thou art there.

9If I take the wings of the morning, and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea;

10Even there shall thy hand lead me, and thy right hand shall hold me.

11If I say, Surely the darkness shall cover me; even the night shall be light about me.

12Yea, the darkness hideth not from thee; but the night shineth as the day: the darkness and the light are both alike to thee.

13For thou hast possessed my reins: thou hast covered me in my mother's womb.

14I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.

15My substance was not hid from thee, when I was made in secret, and curiously wrought in the lowest parts of the earth.

16Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continuance were fashioned, when as yet there was none of them.

17How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them!

18If I should count them, they are more in number than the sand: when I awake, I am still with thee.

19Surely thou wilt slay the wicked, O God: depart from me therefore, ye bloody men.
20For they speak against thee wickedly, and thine enemies take thy name in vain.
21Do not I hate them, O LORD, that hate thee? and am not I grieved with those that rise up against thee?

22I hate them with perfect hatred: I count them mine enemies.

23Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts:
24And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.

Ephesians 6

10Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might.
11Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.
12For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
13Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
14Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;
15And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;
16Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.
17And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: 18Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints;


 
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One neat thing about God is that nothing you ever say or do surprises Him. He knows YOU, and loves you anyway! Christ died for ALL our sins, (had you not sinned you would not need a saviour). Now then start living and stop condeming yourself.

Love yourself and others, then you will be Christ Like!
 
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