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Was just thinking of this after watching the (ultimately very uplifting) Last Station (about Tolstoy and his wife).

I think the answer is clearly that tragedies give us the positives of catharsis without the permanence of tragic situations. We all know it isn't real, but the particulars of the tragedy still invite our cathartic responses. It may be a type of neurological cheating. I also think that what makes catharsis possible is precisely the contrast effect from the false world of cinema or fiction to the real world of our own.
 
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Why do we enjoy tragedy in a book or theatre production yet hate it in real life?

I enjoy a well-written tragedy because I learn something about life. It helps me feel more able to deal with, or to avoid, tragedies in real life. And, yes, there is catharsis as well.

I don't get catharsis from real life tragedy, and while I might learn something from such tragedies, it's probably too late to help.


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Yeah, in content, but in real life you're able to rip yourself away from the tragedy you experience in fiction. That is, the value of tragedy lies in the contrast effect from experience of tragedy to the realization that life isn't as bad after all, plus an added bonus for catharsis.
 
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What makes you think we don't like tragedy in real life?

People will slow down to look when there is a car accident.

We are compelled to watch tragedies like the Japanese tsunami play out on the news.

Real tragedies are interesting when they are not directly effecting us (they are interesting when they effect us too), they entice our interest, and the drama created is entertaining whether we will admit it or not. We are moved emotionally by them.

Imaginary tragedies are entertainment, drama and emotional empathy without the reality. Without the cumbersome moral problems about how we are “supposed” to feel about real events.

There is also a "game" aspect to imaginary tragedies, it gives us perspective in our own life and relative importance of things, and relates the human experience between people.
 
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