Tough week

[HesMyAll]

Its been a very tough week to get through.

My husband no longer has an income.  The company he was an independent contractor for has let him go.  Now he thinks he'll be able to make a lot of money sitting at home and stuffing envelopes.  Even though the Better Business Bureau has warned that these work at home offers are scams.  I even looked one up on the BBB website to show him and now he says that the BBB is lying about these companies.  I've about reached the end of my rope with him.

Anybody have any words of wisdom that might help?  Of course prayer is always welcome.

 

[Didymus]

he is a big boy and will have to learn for himself. he probably feels les then a man because he can t provide for his family right now. the hardest job for you will be to keepy your mouth shut. i can say that because that would be the hardest part for me. try to have a nother guy talk to him

 

[HesMyAll]

Today at 03:57 PM Didymus said this in Post #2

he is a big boy and will have to learn for himself. he probably feels les then a man because he can t provide for his family right now. the hardest job for you will be to keepy your mouth shut. i can say that because that would be the hardest part for me. try to have a nother guy talk to him

There is no other guy to talk to him.  He has no friends because of his deceitful ways.  Even his whole family will have nothing to do with him.  They got tired of being robbed blind and lied to.

As far as being a big boy...yes he is, he's 51 years old and set in his ways.

 

[Didymus]

do you have kids ? he dosen t even have a buddy from work ?

 

[GodOwnsMe]

Father please make things work out out best for Hesmyall and her husband. In Jesus' mighty name. Amen

 

[HesMyAll]

Today at 04:03 PM Didymus said this in Post #4

do you have kids ? he dosen t even have a buddy from work ?

Yes we have a 10 year old daughter.  And no he doesn't have a buddy from work.

Right at the moment our daughter is in tears because he is drunk and yelling and screaming irrationally because she said the cat was in her room.

I'm ready to leave and never look back but don't have the money to right now or I would.

 

[Charity]

Lifting many prayers.

God Bless,
Charity

 

[Hopeful]

the envelope stuffing thing did not work for me, i tried it with 3 diffrent companies and each one of them lied and they never returned my money, i'll pray for you

 

[calgal]

Today at 01:29 PM Hesmyall said this in Post #6



Yes we have a 10 year old daughter.  And no he doesn't have a buddy from work.

Right at the moment our daughter is in tears because he is drunk and yelling and screaming irrationally because she said the cat was in her room.

I'm ready to leave and never look back but don't have the money to right now or I would.

Please do contact a Women's shelter. If you are in Riverside County (CA) there is a Calvary Chapel sponsored shelter called Sheepfold (Christian run). They can give you help. support and if needed a place to live if he gets violent.

 

[HesMyAll]

Thanks for all the prayers and for listening. 

I don't live in California, I live in Ohio and there are shelters here but you have to have actually been assaulted before they will help you.

I am feeling much better right now.  All the prayers from all of you and church service last night have really helped.

    Thank you all, you are a blessing.

 

[nomad]

 

 

[DaveKerwin]

Invite your husband to church, and pray that God touches him, and changes him. Remember to let the holy spirit do his job, and you do yours.

 

[CeCe]

Praying

 

[HesMyAll]

Yesterday at 02:14 PM DaveKerwin said this in Post #12

Invite your husband to church, and pray that God touches him, and changes him. Remember to let the holy spirit do his job, and you do yours.

I have invited him to church and he has gone quite a few times.  As a matter of fact, he went for four years during which time he did not drink and was a totally different person.  It seems as if the more time that goes by the worse he gets.  And oh how I have prayed...that's the only thing that gets me through.