tough times

[hotsauce5000]

im having some tough times yall, i dont know what to do with myself. i pray a lot, for many as well as myself.

since i have overcome alcohol i have cleaned up my life in a great way, even have a wonderful christian girlfriend.

financial problems- here in houston there are a LOT of people having very hard times, lots losing their jobs and homes. im in tight spot where my funds are all dried up and i had to borrow money just to get through the month, now its the first of the month and everything is due again, and im on borrowed time!

i realized that i need to get very motivated and get out and improve my company and make a big turnaround and get some sales. im not a great salesman so i have to do it in order to not sink all together.

i have an offer to move into a house rent free, just to make repairs. only bills will be lights and water that run about 400 a month. i need my own place bad but i just dont think i can make it. please help me when i ask god to guide me on this major decision. if i can find a room mate it might work?

 

[madison1101]

Life on life's terms can be such a challenge in our recovery. I am sure you have read the story about acceptance. It is in the Big Book, and I believe the title is "Acceptance is the Answer." It is powerful.

This time in your life is where the rubber hits the road in your program. Step up your prayer life and meeting attendance. Take a commitment to chair a meeting, or speak, or something that will give you some 12 step opportunities. Keep doing that 3rd step and turning it over.

While you do all that, I will pray for you to have God's wisdom as to what direction to head with your housing situation. God will give you His guidance. It may be challenging to travel this road, but it will be easier if you stay sober. Getting drunk will just add to your problems.

Hang in there. Make your phone calls and reach out for support, like you did here.

Hugs,
Trish

 

[BobW188]

Follow Trish's advice and just remember: Things will be worse if you drink.

 

[Hupomone10]

These trials are allowed by God to reinforce our faith, which reinforces our endurance. Some day this time will be a thing you look back on and share with others how God took you through it and you didn't have to drink.

I will pray for you every day on my prayer walk.
H.

 

[berachah]

Realize this is a spiritual battle. The devil knows if he can get you to drink what he brings in thereafter is defeat, self rejection & condemnation and an acceptance of failure.

It's important to document what it takes to turn your business around and to set some goals (something that is measurable, time specific and has a desired outcome) Even daily goals. Get focused on the goals and this will help.

Hang out with God and Christians whenever you can.

 

[Kevin_Wright]

Hang in there bro.