I know the act of sexual intercourse is a sin in God's eyes but how far is "too far" to go physically with my boyfriend?
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faroukfarouk
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If you have doubts about what is being done, then already maybe conscience is working.
Hebrews 9.14 speaks of the cleansing of the conscience which can be known through faith in the Lord Jesus.
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IMO it is the wrong question. It is tantamount to "how close can I come to sinning and it not being counted against me?" Or "how far can I lean over the cliff without falling?"
What I should ask is why you want to come close to intercourse in the first place; but of course the answer to that is obvious. But maybe you should ask yourself that question.
I understand how strong physical desires are. If what you are doing is responding to those desires and fanning those flames, IMO you are going too far. It will only be a matter of time before you will end up going all the way.
But that is just my opinion.
BTW - unlike a former president said, oral IS sex. So is manual.
What I should ask is why you want to come close to intercourse in the first place; but of course the answer to that is obvious. But maybe you should ask yourself that question.
I understand how strong physical desires are. If what you are doing is responding to those desires and fanning those flames, IMO you are going too far. It will only be a matter of time before you will end up going all the way.
But that is just my opinion.
BTW - unlike a former president said, oral IS sex. So is manual.
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