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Tongues as Private Prayer Language

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rationalizations noted.
I'm not sure what you mean by that, can you elaborate? My goal when it comes to theology and beliefs is to strive towards making sure everything I believe is lined up with first and foremost what Scripture says. Emotions and experiences ought to always take a backseat to Scripture, and I assume that you would agree with that.

Have I said anything that would indicate a rationalization? If so, can you help me see where I might be doing that? I certainly don't want to.
 
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It isn't "us" speaking: it is the Spirit of God speaking.
If the words are meant for foreign ears, it will be in a foreign language.
If the words are spoken to God, it will be in His language.
 
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It isn't "us" speaking: it is the Spirit of God speaking.
If the words are meant for foreign ears, it will be in a foreign language.
If the words are spoken to God, it will be in His language.
Hi Phil, you're going to need to clarify what instance of "us" you're referring to in your comments. As far as I understand the act of speaking, I haven't actually seen the Holy Spirit speak. I've seen people speak before, using their own vocal cords, but I've never seen the actual Holy Spirit speak.

I suppose you mean that the Holy Spirit sort of takes control of the person and sort of possesses them and they become some sort of vessel for the Spirit? I don't really see that in Scripture.

I also don't see anything in Scripture about God's language, can you demonstrate from Scripture that God has a secret language?
 
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By "us", I mean those who speak in tongues.
God is a spirit, so can't be seen.
He can manifest Himself in other ways though.
One of those other ways is by the gift of tongues.
Those with the Spirit of God in them can manifest the Spirit within them by speaking in tongues.
But it is the Spirit speaking, not the man or woman.
Were it the man speaking, he would know what he was saying.
But when the Spirit speaks, we won't understand unless we also have the gift of interpretation of tongues.

I suppose you mean that the Holy Spirit sort of takes control of the person and sort of possesses them and they become some sort of vessel for the Spirit? I don't really see that in Scripture.
Exactly, as scripture states in Matt 10:20 and Acts 2:4.

I also don't see anything in Scripture about God's language, can you demonstrate from Scripture that God has a secret language?
"Secret" language...no.
But 1 Cor 13:1 is one demonstration of a heavenly language..."Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal."
 
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Hi Phil, thanks again for the response. The problem I have is that you clearly are approaching Scripture with a specific view to a theology, and therefore everything you read is interpreted through that lens. I'm trying to be objective in how I approach it, and when one removes personal experience and emotion from the discussion, Scripture seems to be telling a different story. I don't disagree with you. I believe the gift of tongues is a valid gift, and is still active today. I think we see it used most clearly in Acts where it is clearly understood to be other known languages.

I see nothing from a Scriptural point of view to suggest that the gift of tongues as used by the Apostles and other Believers in Acts somehow makes a jump from other known languages to a private, self edifying, not for unbelievers private prayer language. In fact, everything we know about the gifts that the Spirit gives indicates that they are not for our benefit, but for the benefit of the church and the expansion of the Gospel.

Exactly, as scripture states in Matt 2:20 and Acts 2:4.

Mat 2:20 "Get up, take the Child and His mother, and go into the land of Israel; for those who sought the Child's life are dead."

Acts 2:4 And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit was giving them utterance.

Not sure why you referenced the Matthew passage. But with regards to the Acts passage, that's pretty much what happened. The Holy Spirit gave the apostles the gift of tongues and they began speaking other known languages.

You however, take this a step further than what Scripture says. Scripture doesn't say that it is the Spirit speaking, not the man or woman. In fact, it actually says that it was the apostles that began speaking as the Spirit empowered them.

"Secret" language...no.
But 1 Cor 13:1 is one demonstration of a heavenly language..."Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal."
Again, this just displays a lack of understanding in what Paul was teaching. Context matters. Paul was not teaching that there is a secret, language that is unique to the angels that the Holy Spirit gives us to speak.

And of angels - The language of angels; such as they speak. Were I endowed with the faculty of eloquence and persuasion which we attribute to them; and the power of speaking to any of the human family with the power which they have. The language of angels here seems to be used to denote the highest power of using language, or of the most elevated faculty of eloquence and speech.

It is evidently derived from the idea that the angels are “superior” in all respects to human beings; that they must have endowments in advance of all which man can have. It may possibly have reference to the idea that they must have some mode of communicating their ideas one to another, and that this dialect or mode must be far superior to that which is employed by man.

Man is imperfect. All his modes of communication are defective. We attribute to the angels the idea of perfection; and the idea here is, that even though a man had a far higher faculty of speaking languages than would be included in the endowment of speaking all the languages of human beings as people speak them, and even had the higher and more perfect mode of utterance which the angels have, and yet were destitute of love, all would be nothing.

It is possible that Paul may have some allusion here to what he refers to in 2Co_12:4, where he says that when he was caught up into paradise, he heard unspeakable words which it was not possible for a man to utter. To this higher, purer language of heaven he may refer here by the language of the angels. It was not with him mere “conjecture” of what that language might be; it was language which he had been permitted himself to hear. Of that scene he would refain a most deep and tender recollection; and to that language he now refers, by saying that even that elevated language would be valueless to a creature if there were not love.


So again, in conclusion - I see Scripture teaching that the Holy Spirit is the member of the Trinity that is responsible for giving out different gifts of the Spirit.

The gifts of the Spirit that the Holy Spirit gives out are purposed for the edification of Believers, and the growth of Christianity. Yet, we all seem to believe this with the one exception that some people hold to that there is one gift of the Spirit that is actually meant for our own edification - this being praying in a private, non-sensical language that nobody can understand.

I don't see it in Scripture. The more you people talk and defend it, the more it becomes obvious you aren't relying on Scripture, and that you're reading into Scripture your personal experiences trying to make sense of them.
 
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Hi Phil, thanks again for the response. The problem I have is that you clearly are approaching Scripture with a specific view to a theology, and therefore everything you read is interpreted through that lens.
Of course I am viewing it through a "lens".
Isn't everybody?
However the lens I use is the written word and my own experiences that go along with the written word.

I'm trying to be objective in how I approach it, and when one removes personal experience and emotion from the discussion, Scripture seems to be telling a different story.
All "objectivity" is based on personal objectivism.
Please show where scripture counters my POV (point of view).

I don't disagree with you. I believe the gift of tongues is a valid gift, and is still active today. I think we see it used most clearly in Acts where it is clearly understood to be other known languages.
In some cases it is indeed a foreign, existing, language. But to imply "most" cases...I feel you will need to either show how and when it was translated into Greek, Parthian, Mede, or some pertinent language.
An example. Man to man.
A specific translatable language, if you will.
Like Acts 2 does.

Beside Acts 2, I see no other instance of a man unexpectedly speaking in the native language of a foreigner.
Perhaps you could show me an example I have overlooked?

I meant Matt 10:20...not Matt 2:20, to show that the Holy Spirit takes over and it isn't the man actually speaking his own thoughts at all.
Matt 10:20..."For it is not ye that speak, but the Spirit of your Father which speaketh in you."

Were I to walk up to a Mexican here in Phoenix, Arizona, and start speaking in tongues in order to "witness" to him about the faith, I would need to be working from a "script", of sorts, to go from point A to point B and then C and D etc to make my case, and that in English.
My English would need to emerge in Spanish for it to qualify as the gift of tongues in your scenario.
That would be an example of "tongues" being used as you suppose it is most commonly used in scriptural history.
So give a scriptural example of that.

You however, take this a step further than what Scripture says. Scripture doesn't say that it is the Spirit speaking, not the man or woman. In fact, it actually says that it was the apostles that began speaking as the Spirit empowered them.
"Empowered", isn't that the same as "caused"?
And Matt 10:20 DOES say it.

Again, this just displays a lack of understanding in what Paul was teaching. Context matters. Paul was not teaching that there is a secret, language that is unique to the angels that the Holy Spirit gives us to speak.
The gift of tongues can be used by God in both Spirit to man and Spirit to God conversations.
It isn't limited to only one arena of use.

I hope my correction of Matt 10:20 for Matt 2:20 can straighten out your misgivings about more than one usage of the gift of tongues.
 
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Of course I am viewing it through a "lens".
Isn't everybody?
However the lens I use is the written word and my own experiences that go along with the written word.
The genuine student will strive to separate their personal bias when reading Scripture. What you do is take your personal experiences as authoritative and interpret Scripture to support them.

The genuine student places their experiences and emotions on the backburner and interprets them through Scripture.

In other words, were you unbiased, you would be open to the notion that tongues as a gibberish private prayer language that is not edifying anyone else (and arguably not you other than your emotions) is a learned behavior. But you aren’t.

All "objectivity" is based on personal objectivism.
Truth is objective and personal opinion bears no weight upon its reality. For example, “God exists”, is a truth-claim. That truth claim is true independent of what anyone thinks, feels, or believes.

100% of self thinking beings in the universe could believe that God does not exist, and 100% would be wrong.

Please show where scripture counters my POV (point of view).
Apparently you’re new to this thread and haven’t read anything I’ve written, not even in response to you! Just about every single passage I’ve posted with commentary disagrees with your POV.

It isn’t disputed that the Pentecostal experiences in Acts are all instances of tongues being a known, foreign language. If you don’t know that, I can’t help you.

The very issue is that everything Paul says can be readily understood to be in the context of the gift of tongues being the same as the tongues used like the Believers from Acts.

There’s nothing in Scripture to support the notion that tongues went from what we see in Acts to some private, gibberish language that is meant to be used privately between only the Speaker and God.

Indeed, if you know anything about the gifts of the Spirit you would recognize that NONE of the other gifts are meant to be used that way, why would gibberish tongues get its own set of rules that aren’t even provided in Scripture?

Empowered", isn't that the same as "caused"?
No, those are different words with different meanings. Is English your primary language?
 
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I'm not sure what you mean by that, can you elaborate?

It's obvious that when Paul says that speaking in a "tongue" is self edifying, that you don't agree, since you consider it worthless (remember that the SPIRIT sometimes prays even when we say nothing).

You play some "Word games" about "Speaking to God" to make Speaking to HIM in a tongue of no value in spite of what the WORD says about it.

It's also obvious that Paul HAD NO PROBLEM with the tongues themselves being manifested in the Corinthian church, but DID have problems about their "Manner of usage" usage in the common meeting, which he addresses.

OBVIOUSLY if the Holy Spirit burdens somebody to speak in a tongue in a meeting, He wouldn't do that unless he KNEW that he could burden either the speaker, or another with interpretation. I've been burdened to Interpret many times, but have NEVER been burdened to speak in a tongue.

Paul is clear however, that "tongues" in the Corinthian church generally were NOT understood by those present. The MINORITY view ABout Acts 2:4 is that it wasn't a miracle of SPEAKING at all, but a Miracle of "Hearing". Peter, however didn't do the preaching in a "Tongue" but in the common language.

The gist of the Message to the Corinthians were that they were an unruly bunch taking selfish PRIDE in their "Giftings" as though they actually had any contribution to what the Spirit was doing in them. The FOOLS actually were telling those who had "the lesser" gifts (in their carnal judgement - actually there ARE NO "Lesser Gifts") that they HAD NO NEED OF THEM!!!

The FACT is that in the Full-Gospel churches that are in order, the Holy Spirit Choreographs the manifestation of the gifts: He "holds" the service, burdens the tongues speaker (or the Prophet), burdens the interpreter(s), and then releases the service to continue when He's done. The Corinthians were obviously "Showing off" and trying to outdo each other with their gifts, and there was confusion with both "Tongues", and Prophetic utterance.

Acts 2:4 is a "Special case" - the initial introduction of the Holy SPirit ON the Disciples who were already infilled by the Holy SPirit in John 20:22. In 1962 (or so) "Tongues" were the Significant SIGN to the churches (mostly liberal denominations) that something spiritually significant was going on.

The KNOWN manifestations in 2020 are (unless all our pastors and missionaries are bald faced liars):
Speaking in the common tongue, but being heard/understood in one or more different languages.
Speaking in a tongue unknown to the speaker but understood by the listeners, often in their "mother tongue" with proper regional accent.
Speaking in a tongue unknown to ANYBODY, and then followed by a Holy SPirit gifted Interpretation in the common tongue.
Speaking in a tongue (that is not understood privately) according to the inspiration of the Holy Spirit.

If the "tongues speaker" is "Making up his own utterance" (same with Prophetic utterance), then they're deluding themselves - and some of the IDIOTIC teaching in Pentecostal churches: "Priming the pump", "saying nonsense syllables", "talking baby talk" / "GIbberish" in order to "get it started". Guarantees that some proportion of "Tongues"/"Prophesy" is phony as a three dollar bill.
 
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It's obvious that when Paul says that speaking in a "tongue" is self edifying, that you don't agree, since you consider it worthless (remember that the SPIRIT sometimes prays even when we say nothing).
I don't recall saying it is worthless. I agree with what Albert Barnes says about 14:4

Edifieth himself - That is, the truths which are communicated to him by the Spirit, and which he utters in an unknown language, may be valuable, and may be the means of strengthening his faith, and building him up in the hopes of the gospel, but they can he of no use to others. His own holy affections might be excited by the truths which he would deliver, and the consciousness of possessing miraculous powers might excite his gratitude.

You play some "Word games" about "Speaking to God" to make Speaking to HIM in a tongue of no value in spite of what the WORD says about it.
You'll need to actually show what word games I'm playing instead of stating it matter of factly. I'm not trying to play any word games at all, so if you think I actually am, I would appreciate the courtesy of exposing it so I don't do it again.

It's also obvious that Paul HAD NO PROBLEM with the tongues themselves being manifested in the Corinthian church, but DID have problems about their "Manner of usage" usage in the common meeting, which he addresses.
I completely agree that Paul had no problem with someone utilizing the gift of tongues. I think the gift of tongues was/is a valid gift of the Holy Spirit.

OBVIOUSLY if the Holy Spirit burdens somebody to speak in a tongue in a meeting, He wouldn't do that unless he KNEW that he could burden either the speaker, or another with interpretation.
This would imply that the people utilizing the gift of tongues at the Corinthian church weren't being burdened by the Holy Spirit to do so. Yet, they were still able to utilize a gift of the Holy Spirit a part from being burdened by him?

Paul is clear however, that "tongues" in the Corinthian church generally were NOT understood by those present.
I agree. The people in the Corinthian church spoke the same language. There's a really good chance that if I started speaking in tongues this coming Sunday at Church, nobody would understand if I was speaking Bushi.

The MINORITY view ABout Acts 2:4 is that it wasn't a miracle of SPEAKING at all, but a Miracle of "Hearing". Peter, however didn't do the preaching in a "Tongue" but in the common language.
I don't hold to the minority view. I don't think it follows that people would accuse the disciples of being drunk if the minority view were true. However, if the Spirit gave to some apostles the gift of speaking one language, and others another, and others another - then the passage about people thinking they were drunk makes sense.

Acts 2:4 is a "Special case" - the initial introduction of the Holy SPirit ON the Disciples who were already infilled by the Holy SPirit in John 20:22.
I think all of the 4 Pentecostal events in Acts were special cases. Jesus said in 1:8 that his disciples will be his witnesses in Jerusalem, Judea and Samaria, and even to the remotest parts of the earth.

If you look at the 4 "Pentecost" moments in Acts, you'll see a neat pattern. The first takes place with the Jews. The second takes place with God-Fearers (Gentiles that converted), then with the Samaritans, and finally with the Gentiles in Ephesus. I think what you have are 4 unique, one-off type moments where the new Covenant was being shown.

Now that Pentecost has happened, and now that the New Covenant is in place, all people when they accept Christ are simultaneously forgiven, and sealed with the indwelling of the Holy Spirit just as Paul says in Ephesians 1.

If the "tongues speaker" is "Making up his own utterance" (same with Prophetic utterance), then they're deluding themselves
I think this might actually be the case. It's not hard for us to deceive ourselves. It's not hard to convince ourselves something is true if we really want to. I think it's altogether possible that tongues as a gibberish, non-sensical "language" is a self-taught behavior.
 
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*You did a very good job explaining your point.

I had a discussion with someone on this subject and I asked them why they needed to speak in ANOTHER language in prayer to God when He KNOWS OUR VERY THOUGHTS.

He said I DO NOT KNOW - that's why I went to the ______ church.
 
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I suppose you mean that the Holy Spirit sort of takes control of the person and sort of possesses them and they become some sort of vessel for the Spirit? I don't really see that in Scripture.
You're correct about that.

I also don't see anything in Scripture about God's language, can you demonstrate from Scripture that God has a secret language?
Correct again.

The notion that there is a private divine language--or that there is a language which the angels speak--is a modern concoction intended to sidestep the fact that speaking in tongues was supposed, according to Scripture, to be translated.

In addition, the purpose of such tongues-speaking is supposedly to edify the speaker and/or the listener, which a private or untranslated "language" obviously does not do. Having an emotional release is not understanding or edification.
 
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I am told, by a reliable friend who has traveled extensively in Germany, that there is a tiny denomination there which conducts its services exclusively in English although none of the members are fluent in English. The reason is that the German word for angel (engel) is similar to the German word for English (Englisch). They have concluded that the language of angels is English and is, therefore, God's language.
 
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I asked them why they needed to speak in ANOTHER language in prayer to God when He KNOWS OUR VERY THOUGHTS.
No problem at all. GOD knows before we even ask - that's a given. For us to EXPRESS PRAYERS to HIM indicates that take Him Seriously, and that WE trust Him to provide. It's an activity of Worship.
 
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This would imply that the people utilizing the gift of tongues at the Corinthian church weren't being burdened by the Holy Spirit to do so. Yet, they were still able to utilize a gift of the Holy Spirit a part from being burdened by him?

SUre I can speak in tongues any time I please - when you receive "tongues" as a gifting, they're alyays there, and you can speak them when you please - what we refer to as "Prayer / Worship" mode. I could personally get up anytime in a service, interrupt the pastor, and start speaking in my tongue. Personally, I know better. Remember, though that COrinthians were treating THEIR Gifts as "Badges of Honor" and apparently were prone to "Showing off" in meetings. I can speak English, and I COULD deliver a convincing and Bible based PROPHETIC UTTERANCE - but it wouldn't be real. ANYBODY could do that with a little practice.

I don't hold to the minority view. I don't think it follows that people would accuse the disciples of being drunk if the minority view were true.

Sure they would - somebody (a lot of somebodys) is blatting off a bunch of meaningless sounds, and you're not "Miraculously gifted" to understand it (Miracle of hearing) accusing them of intoxication would be normal. Did you ever listen to the Orthodox chant: Ghospodi Pomilui??

It's not hard for us to deceive ourselves. It's not hard to convince ourselves something is true if we really want to. I think it's altogether possible that tongues as a gibberish, non-sensical "language" is a self-taught behavior.

BOY HOWDY!!! is that ever true. AND unfortunately Pentecostal (and Charismatic) churches actually employ teaching methods to practically guarantee that there'll be phony business going on. That, however doesn't eliminate the existence of the REAL. The WAY International (Dr. Victor Weirwille) for $400 1975 dollars would TEACH YOU to speak in tonguse, give prophesy, and interpret tongues on cue, anytime you wanted. All as phony as a three dollar bill, but he had lots of followers.
 
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This reminds me of an interesting experience i had in China. i went to teach at a small, illegal Bible school in an apartment. My assistant was a huge fan of Benny Hinn and very much into speaking in tongues. She was disappointed (to say the least) that i did not share either interest, but was restricted to the Bible. For her, tongues was a personal prayer language, so I never heard her or anyone else speaking in another language, other than English, Mandarin, and the local dialect.

One thing I learned about most Chinese people is that they cannot roll their r's. Most see it as a genetic issue, but i have encountered a few Chinese individuals who learned the technique as children.

One weekend i was whiling away my time at my computer in my bedroom and I began making noises with my mouth, such as fluttering my lips, etc. As it turned out, one of my noises was precisely the same as the "tongues" my assistant did. She overheard me and was quite surprised to find me speaking in her "tongues" even though it was senseless noise to myself. Who knew?
 
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Tongues were a sign to the unbelievers (1Cor.14:22).

Please tell me how the unbeliever is going to understand the jibberish we hear today?


Also the only biblical way of passing the gifts to other INDIVIDUALS was by the laying on of the apostles hands according to (Acts 6:6 ; 8:18,19 , 19:1-6).

The are no RECORDED examples of individuals being baptized by the Holy Spirit.

There are several examples of individuals being baptized (in water) for the remission of sins (Acts 8:13,26-40 ; 16:15 ; 22:16)
 
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