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Tongues as Private Prayer Language

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but our salvation would not be affected by how well we prayed. salvation is a gift. dependent on receiving it. if you been born again, you going to Heaven, do not fear
 
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well, no, but if it is nothing at all, God knows the intent of my heart and i feel like i have prayed. it prob is just gibberish but am sure God would rather i pray than not.
But if it is nothing at all, then even though you may "feel" like you have prayed, you in fact, have not prayed, but just fabricated an emotional experience that was ultimately of no kingdom value.

Better to pray with understanding.
 
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Except you don't actually know that since you don't understand what you're even saying.

well, you may be right and it just harmless gibberish. i don't know. i will carry on until God tells me to stop.
 
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but our salvation would not be affected by how well we prayed. salvation is a gift. dependent on receiving it. if you been born again, you going to Heaven, do not fear
I've never suggested otherwise. Speaking in tongues is not a Salvation issue.
 
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But if it is nothing at all, then even though you may "feel" like you have prayed, you in fact, have not prayed, but just fabricated an emotional experience that was ultimately of no kingdom value.

Better to pray with understanding.

and how do i pray with understanding when my own words are so inadequate? i can write fairly articulately but not speak articulately. when it comes to praying aloud in church i hate it. doesnt matter how sincere i am, it justs seems to rubbish what i say. so anaemic. no passion. and if God doesnt mind, why should i worry?
 
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I've never suggested otherwise. Speaking in tongues is not a Salvation issue.

no, but you mentioned standing at judgement seat and feling concerned baout that. the judgemet seat is where we get rewardes for any good we done. thta is why rewards are additional thing. plenty of christians in heaven who were lukewarm and have no rewards!
 
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1 Corinthians 12 thru 14 gives instruction as to the gift of tongues
 
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I get the sense regardless of reasoning your mind is already made up. So the way you read the scriptures will always come to the same conclusion.

As I have stated previously, the Holy Spirit brings back passages to remembrance as we walk with Him. If tongues is not part of your walk, then those verses will not highlight to you since you do not need to apply them.

As Jesus said to the Pharisees when they accused him of casting out demons by the prince of demons, He appealed to those who actually did exorcisms saying "those shall be your judges" - in the same sense, if it's not your gift - you'll always be missing perspective.
 
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Yes. My husband was saved the first time he went to church. He had never heard of or seen tongues. When he listened the tape of his salvation a few days later, he asked who the guy speaking the foreign language was, and was astonished to learn it was him. He tried to find an excuse to not stay a Christian, but that was a supernatural thing that he couldn't logic away. He says the 'unbeliever' who needed convincing was himself.
 
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Yeah, as long as the gift builds up the faith of others or ourselves, you can tell it is from God.
 
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Thanks for your "addendum".
Though the first time the gift of tongues is mentioned, it was as a language understood by bystanders, if we are speaking in tongues while no one else is around whose to say if it
is a "world's" language or an angel's language?
God's Spirit is speaking to the Father, so who knows what the words mean...unless you also have the gift of interpretation of tongues.

Problem of course is that "cannot be uttered" would rule out speaking in tongues as those are uttered...
As speaking in tongues necessitates "uttering", it is apparent that the interpretation of the word "utter" must mean something else besides "speak".

Rom 8:26 actually doesn't say "speak", but "groanings".
But it is followed with..."And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God."
So, The Spirit "groans", and He that searches the heart knows the Spirit's intent (mind) as He intercedes on behalf of the prayer.
I suspect Paul uses the word "groanings" because it isn't an interpretable, local language.
Does that qualify as a non-existent" language?
I feel it does.

I never said the gift of tongues doesn't exist. I've said all along that it does exist and is a real gift. It's a sign for unbelievers because hearing someone speak in your native tongue who doesn't is well, quite a sign.
I agree with you, but I think the gift of tongues can also be used in other capacities than stunning the unbelieving bystanders.
 
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It isn't biblical...but you do it?
Hmmmm...
Speaking in tongues is biblical and mentioned many times in the bible.
We even have this exhortation/admonition..."Wherefore, brethren, covet to prophesy, and forbid not to speak with tongues." (1 Cor 14:39)
 
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it isnt wrong to do things not mentioned in the bible though.

today did you: clean your teeth
read a bike
use a toaster
drive a car
watch tv?

all the above are unBiblical
 
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I've never suggested otherwise. Speaking in tongues is not a Salvation issue.

oh, i wasn't implying you have to speak in tongues to be saved. but just as speaking in tongues doesnt get you into heaven, speaking in a false tongue will nto damn you to hell. having demons cannot take away your standing with God,
 
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You are correct, but as speaking in tongues IS mentioned in the bible, it is apparently biblical.

I think you may have missed my "question mark".
 
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You are correct, but as speaking in tongues IS mentioned in the bible, it is apparently biblical.

I think you may have missed my "question mark".

ah, ok... i ddi not explain it well (no surprsie there)

tongues are Biblical in a church setting with interpretation. but not as a private prayer language. but i , like many, find using tongues as private prayer language very edifying. so it is not biblical per se, but it is good to do. God doesnt mind if we babble away in private prayer times
 
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I think praying in tongues is biblical, as Rom 8:26 seems to point it out..."Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered."
It says "we should pray for as we aught: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us...."
Don't we pray in private as well as in a group setting?
You say it isn't biblical in spite of what Rom 8 says, plus you yourself do it.
You find it edifying, good, and non-biblical.
That is very puzzling to me.
 
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strangely enough, mine does. even if it is just babble
I like to think of the babble as like baby talk. (a parable from the creation as it were) There's something we're trying to say, but it comes out incomprehensible. God understands it all the same, and is with us there in it. Which is why praying to interpret what is being said, is genius.
 
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