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To stay or split?

  • Thread starter HannahClareRawlings
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HannahClareRawlings

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months and known one another 10 months. We are both Christians who want God's will in our lives.
Just recently we have come accross a problem (that has affected us quite significantly, though we'd rather not disclose it on here) -don't get me wrong, we've had struggles and differences to overcome already, but have done successfully (with God's help!)
He is my best friend and we care for one another a lot, and do want to be together, but we feel as if this thing could affect us later on if we carry on going out. We have been prayerful, and we have been asking The Lord for guidance. Just this last week he has been over (we are long distance) and have had the weirdest time ever with discussions about this thing and tears etc, and so I naturally draw the conclusion that God may be leading us to be apart, or maybe at least for now.
It seems so sad, because he is really is what I want in a man in so many ways. So really, we are asking for some advice (he is still here) -because we haven't talked about it with anyone else -and we just wondered if anyone can share something helpful with us?
We don't want to break up but it seems it may be right to!?! :confused: