To My Future Husband

[Christiangal]

yuch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

 

[remy]

Don't blast me, but isn't a love letter/journal a little too extreme?

 

[looksgood]

Don't blast me, but isn't a love letter/journal a little too extreme?

LOL, nah. It would only be extream if u wrote in it every day.

 

[rkonfire]

Hmm, I don't think I've ever thought about writing letters to my future wife. Maybe I have, who knows.

 

[looksgood]

Hmm, I don't think I've ever thought about writing letters to my future wife. Maybe I have, who knows.

I wrote a good one last night lol. Hope she doesn't think I am a sissy when I give it to her on our wedding lol. I know guys aint supposed to be all deep and all with wrighting letters to someone they have yet to meet. But I think it would be so nice to give her one anyway and we could read a page of it together every day. It would be like constantly declairing love I think.

 

[LuckyCharm]

Don't blast me, but isn't a love letter/journal a little too extreme?

I don't think it's extreme. I have a journal that I've kept for several years, until I deployed to Iraq. I need to start writing in it again now that I'm back. It's not specifically directed to a future husband, but a lot of the guys I've dated have asked to read it, because I usually post the current entry on my web site.

A journal can provide a much deeper look into a person's life than you'd normally get during courtship. It shows not only where a person's been, but how they got there.

~~Cheryl

 

[jesus_is_my_life]

Oh, wow! That is such a cute idea!! Yay for creativity!!

 

[Joyfuldove]

This is beautiful! I honestly would jokingly ask where has he been all these years. I have been moving and doing all these manly tasks like assembling my own desks, cabinets and bookcases all by myself..... Brrrr.....

Hah..... But, I would thank him for praying for me as God has caused me to grow much without him all these years.

 

[bgoddenia]

Msjone, that's using your imagination. It nice when we do use it that why the Lord gave us an imagination for so we can use it.
Don't worry my sis the Lord is preparing your husband this very minute just don't give up and dedicate your future spouse not only in prayer but also in fastisg if it worked for me so it will work for you now all I'm waiting is to get marry on the appointed day he has for me. So be patient soon he will send him so both of you's can work together God perfect will.
Bless you! Betsy

 

[jesus_is_my_life]

That was so beautiful Betsy....

 

[Living4Him03]

I started an actual journal/diary for my future husband, but I rarely write in it now and my handwriting is so bad, also the things I wrote about several years ago seem silly now as I go back and read what I wrote. I want to get my husband something cool like a book written by someone that isn't me. I think a letter is sweet, but a whole journal...I'm just not for that idea anymore.

 

[bgoddenia]

Jesus_is_my_life, "Thanks"



Living4him, Hay I like that it's nice!

Bless you guys!

Betsy

 

[Lexi]

I think it's a sweet idea to write a letter to your future spouse. I remember praying really hard for my future spouse a little bit ago. I should really start doing that again! *laughs*

 

[jesus_is_my_life]

Ditto, Lexi! I started awhile ago and then I just let it slip by! But, the Lord has put it on my heart to start doing that again so here I go

 

[Christian001]

I think these are really kind and loving letters. It's really a great idea.

I don't see myself ever writing one since I'm not really a "touchy feely" guy. But I think it works well for many people.

 

[jesus_is_my_life]

You know what came to my mind about the journal thing? Wouldn't it be better to start a journal right WHEN the Lord brings that special someone into your life? You know because then you can write about your relationship and all the times you argue and then make up Those times where you grow as a person and together as a couple, all your trials, tribulations, and joys! Then when you finally come to the point of marriage and that day comes, you can give that journal to your spouse. You both can read it together and have written evidence of God's faithfulness in your relationship! It'll be like the show a "Wedding Story" except on paper Hey, I think I'll do dat!

 

[songz777]

Hi there to quote JIML "" Wouldn't it be better to start a journal right WHEN the Lord brings that special someone into your life?""" Yeah sounds good, but if you start NOW you can write down, how you feel while you wait? You could write down the pain you have had? The longings etc. Once you have met them, that pain to some degrees and that wait goes from FAITH to SIGHT... just an idea, as Ive got a litle wooden heart carved in wood and painted red ready to be inscribed with her name,,, how about getting a few little things togther for that special man one day?? Fink I would be chuffed as a man anyway....thoughts may be ??? Bless you all JOHN

 

[jesus_is_my_life]

Ive got a litle wooden heart carved in wood and painted red ready to be inscribed with her name,,,

That is SO sweet And you know you're right, we could start now and then it would show everything that you suggested. I dunno, that was just sumthin that came to me!

 

[looksgood]

lol, think I will just write a letter instead. I dont have the patiants to make a whole book lol.

 

[bèlla]

Beautifully articulated!

~bella